I’m going to be straight with you, guys. The Jessica Albases of the world are out of your league. Don’t take it personally. Jessicas are out of most guys’ league, just like Gerard Butler is out of mine. But, before you take to a high bridge, know that you can still become an attractive man, which is how to get the girl of your dreams!
What we think we want and what we really want are sometimes two different things.
I think I want Gerard Butler. The reality is that I have a fantasy of what I hope he’s like based on bits of interviews, celebrity gossip, etc., just like you do about your celebrity—or real life—crush.
And even though I might have a weak moment (or twenty) if given the opportunity to do (anything with) him, I have no idea what the man is really like.
Other than the fame and fortune bit, the traits we’re attracted to in these unattainable people are attainable in mere mortals who are within our league.
What I like about my fantasy Gerry is his I-don’t-give-a-fuck-
what-others-think-of-me yet humble-ish attitude. You know who else had this quality? My dad.
My mom loved my dad because of this quality, too, even though my pop wasn’t handsome, wasn’t educated, wasn’t rich, wasn’t genius, and was way overweight. They’ve both passed away, but their love endured to the end.
So, do we want arm candy or the kind of love that makes our heart happy and endures to the end?
If you just want to pick up chicks and get laid, this is the wrong site for you.
But if you want to get the girl of your dreams and get laid with the bonus of having a bestie that “gets you,” read on.
You might get lucky and win the love lottery, but you have a better chance of winning if you invest in bettering yourself along the way.
Do the five steps above, silly gander!
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Vancouver Dating Coach for Shy Guys & Introverted Men. Matchmaker Liaison. Founder: Wingmam