Every dude knows that nice guys finish last, so what’s a guy to do when pushy female dating coaches tell us there are things we should change to attract women? Hint: Listen up!
If you’ve read some of my other blogs, you know that women don’t like “nice guys” because they come off as needy or insecure or uncertain, which all translates into—not enough confidence.
Remember, confidence is sexy. Every woman wants a self-assured man.
So if you’re not supposed to be malleable, because chicks don’t dig Putty Pete, then why is it a good idea to change any qualities to attract women?
Answer: Because some of your current qualities suck. But even more important, you also think these qualities suck.
The things you should change to attract women are simply the things you want to change, anyway.
What will make you a better man in your own eyes?
Those are the things to change.
Change is uncomfortable, so if we’re going to put in the effort to become someone different, make sure that new person is someone you want to be.
p.s. Or invest in yourself by investing in my online self-study Get Women program—I bet it’ll “save years of counselling.” (Quote from a dude client who invested in his awesome self.)
Vancouver Dating Coach for Shy Guys & Introverted Men. Matchmaker Liaison. Founder: Wingmam