… Not to be confused with “get the lady-boy”―we’re talking about how to get the girl. Dude. Ok, never mind, way off track there. What we’re exploring today is how to become more attractive to get a girlfriend, y’all!
Warning: There’s a lot of shit in this post and a lot of f-bombs.
If you can remember that everyone poops, then you might find that even the hottest chicks out there are less intimidating. I know, it’s not the sexiest thing to think about, so only visualize this when your insecurities are sitting on your self-confidence!
Without further adieu (or poo talk) …
Seriously, dudes. If you want her to see you as a stud muffin, super hero, warrior knight in shiny armour worth bedding or wedding, then you gotta see yourself that way.
Simply start by catching yourself when your mind hijacks your self-esteem with all that negative self-talk. Then tell yourself, “That’s fucking bullshit, mind. I’m awesome.”
Be sure to have this self-argument in your mind and not out loud. (Unless you’re in East Van where it would seem totally normal. No offence to East Van residents—in fact, kudos to self-expression!)
Ok, so yes, you’re awesome but! But maybe some of that shitty self-talk is trying to tell you to do something different.
Shitty self-talk: “Bro, your style sucks. What chick would want you?”
Questioning the shitty self-talk: Does my style really suck? Does it matter to chicks?
More important, would it matter to the kind of chick I’d want?
Ok, so, can I change my style?
Hell, yeah. Why not! Sure, it might cost a few bucks and maybe I’ll have to get out of my comfort zone. Maybe my homies will raz me, but so what? I ain’t gonna die. And I can raz them back for being stuck in the last decade.
(to be continued …)
Screw it, I’ll switch it up! What’s the worst that could happen. I ain’t gonna die!
Bam, dude! Did you see what just happened there. You questioned your shitty self-talk, decided something might benefit from “fixing” and took charge by making an empowering decision.
Dude, you are fucking awesome!
Sorry for the swears, but this is serious shit.
Just because you choose to change to get the girl of your dreams doesn’t make you a pussy if you’re improving yourself in empowering ways. #YouRock #PussyRocks #ChicksRock
Option 1—Do the shit in this post, dude.
Option 2—Take my WakeUP2Luv course and I’ll hold your hand, metaphorically speaking, by giving you the step-by-step map to become more attractive to get a girlfriend.
p.s. Did you download the Instant Confidence “Talk to Her” Cheatsheet? If not … WTF, Dude?
Vancouver Dating Coach for Shy Guys & Introverted Men. Matchmaker Liaison. Founder: Wingmam