You want girlfriend. A woman you’re proud to be with and who is proud to be with you. So, if you want to know how to get a girlfriend of your dreams then you gotta know how to build confidence because all quality chicks dig confidence.
I teach two basic way on how to build confidence.
One way is simple and quick to apply but takes longer to get confident.
The other way ain’t so simple or fast in the application process but is hardcore, hardwired effective.
In other words, the first way will get you some surface confidence that’ll get you talking to girls, but inside—at least for a while—you’ll feel like a fraudster, faking confidence and hoping like crazy she don’t find out she outta yo league.
Hint: No one is out of your league—well, except the Jessica’s of the world, but let’s get real. You just want a cuddle bunny that ain’t a “Butter Face” as in “everything good ‘bout her ‘but her face.’”
The second way on how to build confidence requires more. It means getting in touch with the source of your low confidence and then fixing the way you relate to those shitty stories. It’s a pretty intense project but has real and lasting effects, like superhero fuck-it-I-AM-good-enough-for-a-Jessica confidence.
You know how I know?
I know because I’m just a regular gal, but I actually believe that I’m good enough for The Gerry.
Who da Gerry?
Gerard Butler, dudes. Yeah, that guy. The star of 300.
To be clear, I don’t NEED a Gerry, because Gerry ain’t no better than any other guy. (But he is uber confident—see post, “Why Women Spread ‘Em For Gerard Butler.”)
The point is that I don’t think he’s outta my league, which translates into … huge fucking confidence on my part! (Or possibly extreme disillusionment! *meh, shrug*)
That’s the shit I teach in my WakeUP2Luv—Get a Girlfriend course. And since I used to be painfully shy with self-esteem you could step on, I’m uniquely qualified to share how I got over all that, y’all!
For today, you gonna get the quick, simple technique because it’s what most guys want—a quick simple way of how to build confidence.
Now, if you are extra ambitious on how to build confidence, you’ll apply this technique AND take advantage of my FREE Instant Confidence “Talk To Her” Cheat Sheet and then decide if you want to get deep and dirty—mind outta gutter, Sir!—with my Get A Girlfriend course.
“…wish I found this sooner. It would have saved me years of counselling.” Y. S.
Watch the video below—How to Build Confidence—and be sure to subscribe to my YouTube channel, WingmamTV.
Also, remember to sign up for the FREE Instant Confidence Cheatsheet … This shit is GOLD!
p.s. I recently worked with a coaching client who met a girl who he thought was way “out of his league.” Wanna know what happened? Stay tuned, I’ll tell ya next week!
Vancouver Matchmaker and Dating, Love and Relationship Expert Founder: Wingmam