Stop Going For Hot Mess Chicks

How To Get the Girl: Avoid High-Maintenance Chicks and Drama Queens Just like women who love bad boys—I’m a recovered bad boy picker—I’ve heard many stories from men who can’t help but get drawn to a high-maintenance woman aka Hot Mess Chick. First, what is a high-maintenance chick? Warning: Political incorrectness—and the ugly truth—ahead, but there’s […]

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Why We Go for the Wrong Person

And How to Know if Someone’s Right for You How to avoid going for the wrong person (mate) starts with knowing… People love their comfort zones! (I totally do.) Our comfort zone is like a pair of well-worn PJs—familiar, cozy, safe. Like a comfy pair of PJs, we tend to be attracted to people and often […]

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Five Love Languages Book by Gary Chapman

Five Love Languages—Interpreted by Wingmam Gary—Mr. Chapman, that is—writes in his best-selling book, The Five Love Languages, that we all express love primarily in five different ways and that the way we express love is how we tend to want to receive it. In other words, if we don’t get loved the way we need […]

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How to Get Over Shyness and How to Get Confident

Conquer Shyness + Gain Confidence = Get Happy I used to be so shy. How shy was I? As a kid, I was so shy that I wouldn’t go to school if my best friend—one friend—didn’t go. If she was at home sick, I was at home sick. If she was on a family vacation, […]

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How To Love Yourself

How To Know If You Love Yourself? You Love Yourself When … Someone sent me a query asking me “how to love yourself” and telling me about his lonely life in love-lacking misery accompanied with drug use and depression. We got on the you-must-love-yourself topic, whereby he declared his certainty of self-love. I said I’d write […]

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