Wanna be the star of your very own romantic comedy but skip the struggle and cut to the happy ending and fun bits?
Are you ready for lasting love and want to settle down without settling?
As your Vancouver Matchmaker co-ordinator and Dating Coach, my mission is to help you find and attract the love of your life by helping you rewrite your love script and end single-hood and life with mismatched socks!
But! Hiring a matchmaker alone isn’t going to give you the tools to succeed in the dating world even if you’re sitting right in front of who you think for sure is your soulmate… You gotta be your best you! Hence the coaching bit.
My WakeUP2Luv: Shy Guy’s Get a Girlfriend Guide shows you how to be your best authentic assertive you and how to understand the different needs of men and women in romantic relationships.
For more about the pros and cons of hiring a matchmaker vs. dating coach? Click here.
I’m Anna Jorgensen—Vancouver dating and confidence coach and your matchmaker connector. I help frustrated, confused, shy and/or self-sabotaging single men get unstuck and find lasting love.
The letters behind my name?
They say it takes 10,000 hours of study to become an expert at something. I’ve studied or attended hundreds (maybe thousands) of hours of dating and relationship books, videos, workshops, seminars, webinars and the like for years; I’ve interviewed hundreds of singles and couples about their dating and relationship experiences; but more than all that—I’ve practiced what I’ve studied. I started my studies early …
Envision remote Canadian logging camps in Western Canada with only lumberjacks, grizzly bears and trees for company. These were my formative years as a shy but observant child. My sheltered childhood surrounded by filthy-minded, good-hearted “loggers” gave me early insight to the innate male mind. Naked-lady wallpaper may have been an influence. I had the foundation to think like a guy.
But being sheltered with only three other kids my age also created massive shyness when it was time to go to school.
Some shitty things happened early on that also added extreme insecurity and low self-esteem to the mix. I ended up being a loner and an outcast and was bullied a lot. That sucked.
When I “grew up,” I went into (insert scary music) real estate sales. You only have to talk to one or two people at a time, so I could do this, but I was still shy and self-loathing inside. I carried this around until my late 30s!
Even though I studied all the self-help books, took all the seminars, workshops, therapy, hypnosis sessions etc. and knew what caused it I didn’t know how to fix it. Fuck.
Then, almost by mistake, I figured out how to really get over it! Like, holy shit over it. I want to help other shyness sufferers get over it, too.
In 2012, I traded in my saleswoman shoes for something more fulfilling: A Love Expert cape: Master Dater, Dating & Confidence Coach and Matchmaker!
But clothing and knowing are only part of becoming a dating, love and relationship expert. Practicing the craft creates mastery! I did a lot of “practicing”…
Remember the part at the beginning of my romantic comedy when I was getting supremely rejected? Well, I did this…
I used my early logging camp ed plus a lot of study and learned how to really “get” guys. But “getting” the guy isn’t all it’s cracked up to be.
Sometimes we’re so focused on who we think we want that we forget to stop and notice why we want them and if we should want them.
I got the guys I thought I wanted, but really I was more interested in the idea of them. They weren’t a right fit. And I was the common denominator. Eek.
So, I took a love sabbatical.
I went back to the books and workshops seminars therapy meditation tapping hypnotherapy you-name-it. Heck, I even went to Israel and prayed at the Wailing Wall!
I figured my shit out and now I wake up to love every damn day! I can help you get happy, too. (While enjoying the melancholy bits.)
Why you give a care… Women translate a happy guy to a guy who can handle when the shit of life hits the fan. And that trait is sexy AF.
So, is that a “Yes?”Gentlemen click here!
If you’re looking for a dating coach or matchmaker in Vancouver I’d love to help you find, attract and keep lasting love. Are you ready to write your happy ending?
Hint: You didn’t wind up here by accident and… Nothing changes if nothing changes.Ok! Ok! I’m ready. Let’s do this!
Love Warrior and Founder of Wingmam
Your Vancouver Matchmaking Connection and Dating, Love and Relationship Expert