Category: Dating 101, Tips For Chicks | By:  Anna Jorgensen | 0 Comments


A Lot, Ladies, A Fuck Ton.

Before you decide to improve your appearance, here’s a short story: I know a woman who is gorgeous. Stereotypically hot Hot HOT. But she has a helluva time getting guys—WTF?

So when I asked her, “What’s so great about you?” she looked at me like I was from Mars, which, according to author John Gray, is where men are from. Women are from Venus.

I admit that I was testing her. She knows she’s gorgeous, sure, but what else?

Here’s the thing: If we can’t describe why we’re a great catch, how’s any guy going to see us in that light?

When we don’t value our great assets and only focus on the things we think need to improve, that reflects in the way we act around men—which is typically intimidated or not good enough. Read: desperate.

Men have one area of instinct that is highly tuned, and that is to be able to detect desperation. The result? They deflect as far as possible away from the source of it.

How to Improve Your Appearance?

This is why we need to fully embrace all the amazing aspects of our goddess-y being. None of us is perfect—no such thing—but we all have special qualities that make us desirable and sexy AF.

While I’m a full believer in personal growth, I also believe that the true measure of self-love is in accepting who and where we are at any given moment while loving ourselves enough to improve our lives in any—or many—given area/s.

Self-love + self-improvement = Holy Hotness Henrietta!

I know other women who don’t have a magazine’s cover look, and yet they’ve got guys falling at their feet. How you look don’t matta, darlin’, I promise, but your attitude about how you look sure does.

How to Improve Your Appearance Takeaway

Our attitude subtly shifts into sexy when we can celebrate what God gave us while working on “polishing the stone” (think diamond, as my little mom would say) and by recognizing areas of our lives that could use some polishing. And guys like the smell of sexy. More importantly, we will like our own scent!

How to Improve Your Appearance Actionable

Make a list of what’s so great about you! There’s plenty.

xo AJ

Wanna step-by-step action plan to becoming the best, sexiest true version of you while learning HOW TO GET A BOYFRIEND who adores the real you? Click here, girl friend!


About the Author Anna Jorgensen

Dating, Love and Relationship Coach Founder: Wingmam, Vancouver, Canada Warning: Not PC, not a feminist ❤️


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