In matters of the penis, does size matter? No man comes out and talks about this openly unless they’re jesting with or jibing their buddies.
Make no mistake, men love their dicks. But with the rage of porn sites with dudes who have raging oversized “members,” it’s no wonder men are insecure about the size of their wang.
The video in this post is mostly for men, but ladies might gain something by watching it—perhaps a sensitivity to the woes of men’s most sensitive organ and moreso to men’s emotional sensitivity about the size of it. Or lack thereof.
The average erect penis is something like 5 1/2 inches. I don’t know if this is measured from the top or bottom or side or from a reflection in a kind or unkind mirror, but I’d bet that most men with average-sized penises think theirs is actually smaller than average.
Ladies, with extreme delicacy in the teaching delivery, let your men know how you like him to use his Johnson. Never NEVER tell a man that his unit is inadequate. If you do, you’re no lady.
Forn-ucation is both parties’ responsibility. Men don’t come with vaginas—well, actually they do, but what I mean is that they weren’t born sporting one (unless they’re hermaphroditic, but that’s a whole other pole and hole story.)
And gents, please get over your egos and let her guide you. I once had a boyfriend who, after I said something like “mmm, yeah, like that … a little to the left,” replied indignantly with “I know what I’m doing.”
Decide if you want her to O or if you want her to fake it.
You can gain some ego control by asking her what she likes (though not too early in the courtship) before she feels the need to tell you, but wait until you’re at least naked together. Leading with your tongue—asking her—is more ego-boosting than if she asks you to lick her a little to the left.
p.s. If you’re insecure about the size of your less-than-average-sized penis, and a gal breaks up with you and won’t tell you why, it might be because of your dick or it might be that you don’t know how to use it—or it might be that the solid back-up plan (cunnilingus) was lacking.
Or it might be something totally unrelated. Do yourself a favour and get over it. Assume the best, but then read some books or articles on women’s sex, intimacy and how to have great sex.
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