How To Build Confidence With Affirmations [video]

Build Confidence With Affirmations? #TrueStory

What are affirmations and is it really possible to build confidence with affirmations? If so: how, Anna, how??

Affirmations are words we tell ourselves that help empower us to have, be or do something. They can be positive affirmations or negative affirmations.

Building confidence is a lot easier when we use affirmations effectively.

Everything we say or think is an affirmation of a belief system and if our belief systems suck then we’ll never build confidence with affirmations (not those negative affirmations) and never get a girlfriend).

Or if we do manage to get a girlfriend, they’ll probably be below the standard we were hoping for.

Build Confidence with Affirmations Example Time!

Negative affirmations:
  • “Why do I always have to say something stupid?”
  • “I’m way to shy to approach girls.”
  • “God doesn’t think I’m ready for a girlfriend.” (That’s a sneaky cop-out bad one!)
Postive affirmations:
  • “I get better at talking to people the more I practice.”
  • “I’m gaining confidence by making more decisions in life.”
  • “Lord knows, I am ready for a girlfriend!”

So. Stop self-sabotaging and start building confidence by using affirmations that work. And pretty soon you’ll be bumping nasties with the sweetheart you really want.

Watch the video and then let me know in the comments how you’re going to build confidence with affirmations. What’s one negative thought you’re going to catch yourself on and turn into a positive affirmation?

I love reading your comments!!

Dude, repeat after me: I deserve to be loved!

Yes. You do!

To the very core of me I KNOW this to be true. It is the reason I do what I do. (I’m kinda sentimental that way.)

Your Creator didn’t put you here to be single and suffering. But, as My Little Mom (RIP) used to say, “God helps those who help themselves.”

(She also said that God doesn’t create junk! Yes, this means you, my friend.)

And, guess what else? You don’t have to believe in God for my dating advice to work for you!


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DISCLAIMER: Anna is not a psychiatrist—no way—or medical advisor—nope—you are responsible for your actions and the results thereof. Such is life.

About the Author Anna Jorgensen

Vancouver Dating Coach for Shy Guys & Introverted Men. Matchmaker Liaison. Founder: Wingmam

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