What To Talk About On A First Date [video]

Emotional Attraction Is More Than Sex? Wait, What?

If you want to build sexual attraction and have an emotional connection then knowing what to talk about on a first date is more important than just thinking about sex.

Shut the front door!

I know.

Did you know that men produce 10-30 times more “sex hormone” than women? It’s true.

That’s why you can’t help thinking about sex all. the. time.

(Unless, you’re depressed, then you’re hormones are fucked up. Go to WingmamTV and watch my video on getting over depression. Then subscribe to my channel, because you’re missing out on my newest juiciest videos!!)

Ok, so unless you’re depressed, you’re way hornier than women are. But!

Women love sex just a much, maybe more, than men.

You’re wondering what the hell this has to do with what to talk about on a first date, right?

What to Talk About on a First Date

  • NOT sex.

Yes, you want to be attracted to each other, but you’ll know that pretty much right away. So, set that aside. You’ll both know fairly quickly if there’s potential for sex, but if you want a girlfriend,, you gotta figure out compatibility.

Women love sex but, if we’re looking for a relationship with the potential of commitment, not just a booty call, then we also need an emotional / intellectual connection.

Obviously, you want to be attracted to each other, but what if the sexual chemistry is there and the emotional or intellectual connection isn’t? And that’s what you’ll discover when you know what to talk about on a first date!

Can you build an emotional connection? Yes. Sometimes. Watch the video for more deets.

Dude, what do you think? What’s something you’ll be talking about on your next first date?

Let me know in the comments. I love reading about you and your thoughts!

Remember …

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DISCLAIMER: Anna is not a psychiatrist—no way—or medical advisor—nope—you are responsible for your actions and the results thereof. Such is life.

About the Author Anna Jorgensen

Vancouver Dating Coach for Shy Guys & Introverted Men. Matchmaker Liaison. Founder: Wingmam

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