It doesn’t matter if you’re a a feminist or a traditionalist, the question remains: Should a man always pay for dinner?
Remember that song with the lyrics, ” … she works hard for the money, so hard for it, honey…”?
That’s because you’re not old (and wise) like me. 😉
That song was old when I was young, so yeah, it’s old.
But the point of the song still rings true today.
Women make 30% less than men in the same professions.
Put another way, a woman has to work 30% harder to get the same wage.
Oh, don’t worry, I’m not going all women’s lib on you, guys. There’s plenty of crap you have to put up with just because you’re a dude.
But the reality of the social structure we live in and our biological emotional differences still support the ideologies of traditionalism.
The point is that as much as we’d like to think we’re past traditional values, most of us aren’t.
Men innately have the instinct to provide for and protect (and procreate). Yeah, baby! #Literally
Women innately have the instinct to care for, connect, communicate.
What about bossy babes, Anna?
My personal theory is that boss babes are bitchy because they’re suppressing the feminine side of themselves and it (unconsciously) feels confining.
My other personal theory is that guys with nice guy syndrome have suppressed their alpha maleness and also feel trapped in some pseudo new man role.
I am not a feminist. If you are, there is nothing wrong with that, but this is the wrong site for you.
If you’re a man who wants to be and feel masculine, you’ll need to pony up for dinner. At least the first two times.
And the only way for you to do this with a smile on your face and pride in your heart is to choose better women to invest in.
Don’t throw your money away on a bunch of lemon cars when you really deserve a Tesla, dude!
Nonetheless, there are some shit tests you’re going to have to throw at a girl to make sure she’s no Pinto.
If you know what kind of car a Pinto is, you old, too.
Watch the video on how to shit test a girl to know if she’s a gold digger or a good one!
Of course, if you want the map to the love meadow — aka how to get a girlfriend — then you need to invest in yourself, dude! Get my WakeUP2Luv: Get a Girlfriend Guaranteed program.
Study in your PJs, learn, take action, get the girl. Do it.
Vancouver Dating Coach for Shy Guys & Introverted Men. Matchmaker Liaison. Founder: Wingmam