In this #MeToo day and age, it’s no surprise men are asking for clear signs she’s ready for sex.
Orange is not the new black.
Jail time is not fun. Or so I’m assuming.
So, if a dude wants to be sure she’s ready to go all the way, he needs to pay attention to several behaviours and ultimately…
A man must always get express consent before having sex with a woman.
But guess what?
You can get express consent while turning her on even more. True story! 😉
Hint: As you’ll see, these signs are in progressive order, so the earlier ones won’t necessarily mean she wants to jump your bone immediately.
Remember, even if she just wants a one night hookup, women need foreplay. (Watch my video on the 12 Stages of Seduction.)
The latter signs are more clear signs she’s ready for sex now, baby, now but you still must get consent. #Slammer vs. #SlamHer
But before we get to these crystal clear signs she’s ready for sex with you, let’s do a quick prepared-for-sex checklist.
Now you’re good to go! Fingers crossed you get to cum. 😉
Ok, so whether you’ve just met from across a crowded room (like a night club) or you’ve been sort of dating awhile or are just getting into sexting, here are the signs she might be ready for sex.
Remember, “no” means “NO” no matter what stage of seduction you’re at, even if you’re already three pumps in. Or seventeen.
To be sure she’s ready and giving express consent, ask her along the way.
Use a lowered tone, slow your pace, whisper in her ear teasingly as though you already know she wants it more than you do and you’re willing to take it all away from her.
“Is this ok?”
This next one is the one-two knock down punch!
Okay, but be ready for a wild woman …
Whisper close to her ear just like you did the last line, totally in control and sultry, “You like that?”
If she breathlessly says, “Yeah” then follow up with the knock down:
Yes, you are telling her to say she likes it. Or wants you or whatever.
Not only have you received express consent, but that girl will be so hot for you that she’ll practically beg for sex if you don’t give it to her.
You’re in control, leading and dominating but at the same time making her feel safe.
Someone, pass me a cigarette.
p.s. Y’all know I don’t smoke, right? That was a joke, ‘cause … it’s gettin’ hot in here … 🎶
But, Anna, I don’t even have the confidence to talk to girls, or when I do I mess up, or when I don’t mess up they get to know me and they ghost me, or we date and then they ditch me or …
Woah, woah, woah. Stop! 🛑
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