Ok, maybe easier online dating is a stretch; online dating is work, after all. But there are ways to make your efforts more effective!
Effective means: less time consuming, fewer frustrations and more and better dates.
So in the order of efficiency, let’s get right to it.
This means that you know what these are before you even get on a dating site (if you choose to go that route).
Yes, only five.
This doesn’t mean other things aren’t also important; it means that you’re going to bypass anyone who doesn’t at least meet these basics.
Of course, if you haven’t already guessed it, my WakeUP2Luv program takes you through a step-by-step process to figure this out.
You want to cover some of the basics—your top five deal makers/breakers at the very least.
That way you can decide if you want to date a woman who “is not materialistic.” (Read: may lack motivation to improve her life standard, you will be paying for everything; or may be a hippy environmentalist and refuse to ride in your Hummer.)
A man who “wants a natural girl who doesn’t wear scents: perfume, deodorant …” (I’ve worn Chanel Allure parfum for, like, everrr.)
Hint: Try to be conversational, not interrogational.
If one of your top five makes a romantic relationship unrealistic, be sure your date knows this unequivocally before the date so she can decide if she’s interested in friendship.
Don’t lead someone on.
Several years ago, I had a great “friendship only date” with a guy who has young kids (totally a no-go zone for me, see above).
By the way, why would you go on a friendship only date?
Because friends are good to have and you/they have other single friends.
If your new friend is cool, their friends are cool, too. Set your ego aside.
Speaking of ego…
Worth repeating! Never send dick pics if you’re looking for long-term love!
You may also want to consider my short and sweet video program: Double Your Online Dating Training.
I got a nice email (yesterday) from the last fella who invested in the program (last week) and got a date (a few days later) and is going on date #2 with a new lady (soon)!
Yay for G.T.!
Or start by watching my easier online dating playlist:
Vancouver dating coach for men who love women! ❤️ (Not PC and not a feminist.)