How’s a decent guy supposed to balance masculinity with vulnerability without becoming a weenie or a dick?
Setting phallic jokes aside, this is a real conundrum for fellas these days.
As you well know, women say they want men to be sensitive but when they are we get turned off.
Guys have emotions, a wide range of them, and that’s normal and healthy.
While at the same time, women are very sensitive to men acting like children or like women.
The reason is quite simple…
Others’ suffering triggers women’s maternal instincts.
Maternal is not the same as nurturing.
Maternal shuts off sexual attraction.
Holy a-ha moment, Batman!
Right, so that’s why men are wondering how to balance masculinity with vulnerability.
So, let’s get on with it…
Did you know that she feels honoured when she earns your trust?
Avoid inappropriate #intimate female friendships!
Part of knowing how to balance masculinity with vulnerability is in keeping intrigue in the love game (without playing games).
Mystery is enticing!
Wingmam motto: Always leave them wanting more!
Masculine and feminine are polar energies.
When a man knows how to balance masculinity with vulnerability he reassures his woman in his alpha energy and she’s remains sexually attracted to him.
Find non-judgmental good hearted men at conventions for modern alpha men who’ve learned how to balance masculinity with vulnerability.
These guys are your go-to tribe so you don’t dump too much on your dame.
Oh, what’s that, Anna J, you know just where to go to find these fellas?
Yes, yes, I do. Click here.
You’re welcome, you manly man you! ?
It’s not easy to open up to other guys and not all men are open, but there’s a need and it’s not beta.
And… part of an interview with Connor Beaton of ManTalks:
Find and attend, or start, a group for men who want to talk. It’s a brave thing to do.
Nervous? Start online anonymously. Ignore the trolls.
p.s. If you choose to reply, please do so in the public comments below the video where there’s a chance I’ll see it! (Not via email.) Thank you!
Vancouver dating coach for men who love women! ❤️ (Not PC and not a feminist.)