A viewer recently made a comment on one of my recent videos asking me why I do what I do. Why do I care about men?
Well, if you know my story, you know I came to be a dating and relationship expert by personal experience… in that I sucked at both!
Long story longer: obsessive study of psychology and relationships, experimentation and practicing what I was learning, and listening to experts and non-experts.
Bottom line, I wanted to save others from the heart-wrenching struggles I’d had.
I start working with women but my direct (masculine) approach didn’t gel well with most of them.
Then I got my first male client!
What a difference!
Men are so wonderfully logical!
I’d suggest something and if it made sense they accepted it and, if motivated to change, tried the suggestions, which lead them to success.
Woohoo! Most rewarding feeling everrrr.
Women accept the concept, but emotionally reject change and often refuse to try anything different.
This was my early experience with women who came to me to be coached!
I feel your pain and frustration, fellas.
So, I switched to working with men.
After jumping into the male-focused end of the pool, I discovered (as you’ve probably seen from some of the comments on my YouTube videos) some men get emotionally triggered by info they don’t like just like us ladies!
#notalwayslogical #sometimesemotional #wtfannaj
Everyone, men, women and those identifying within the rainbow, lack relationship savvy.
We’re not only not taught this stuff in school or along the way but, because of feminism and societal indoctrination, young people are taught political correctness, which is biologically incorrect info about the innate nature of (straight) men and women and masculinity and femininity.
Those who are trying to teach the new generations might mean well, but they’ve led many astray, and by and large men have got the shaft in the deal.
And, indirectly, women have, too. #nobabewantsabetaboy
I’m trying to get folks back on track so y’all can get real, be real and find love.
Wherever it comes from, I’m a problem solver.
failed practice relationships, I really did obsess with figuring out what I was doing wrong in my relationships.
Along the way, I learned what men do “wrong” and while I take full responsibility for my part in my past relationships, I realized we all need guidance to bridge the gap of male/female differences.
If you’re ready to learn where you’ve
gone wrong misunderstood women in the past and where you’ve gone right but maybe wrong in choosing the right partner, you’ll benefit from my WakeUP2Luv program.
WakeUP2Luv provides the step-by-step to-do’s in the areas of your life where you’ll benefit most, which might not start in the love category!
The program requires effort and commitment, both at home and in the real world (modifiable for pandemics!) but it’s not too scary AND there’s a no-questions-asked 100% money back guarantee if you don’t love it.
No risk, big reward.
If you do the work, it WILL change your life. At least, that’s what my WakeUP2Luv grads tell me! 😉
Lots of love, Anna 🥰
Yes, I was nervous. I felt the fear and I did it anyway and over the years my videos have improved.
But it only happened because I took the first step and then I didn’t give up.
You got this!
Vancouver dating coach for men who love women! ❤️ (Not PC and not a feminist.)