Why Women Spread ‘em For Gerard Butler [Video]

 … aka How To Drive Women Wild With Desire & Passion … … aka: How To Be More Confident With Women. I’m writing this blog for men in “man language.” Dame Disclosure: If you’re a woman reading this, take heed: potentially offensive material ahead—also the reason I “get” guys—that you may learn something from! What […]

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Handle Rejection Like A Stormtrooper [Video]

Rejection sucks. Or … does it? Okay, fine. It does. At least when it comes to matters of the heart. But in this vlog, you’ll learn how to handle rejection like a Stormtrooper, baby, yeah! And maybe even look at it as a welcome challenge. Read on… When I was but a wee insecure teenage fledgling, […]

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Project 50 First Dates — First Date #2: Slouchy Stargazer

My second official first date for social study “Project: 50 First Dates.” Like The G Man from First Date #1 (see blog), SS is another gentleman I’m impressed by because … he’s got the balls to go on a fake date, the openness and optimism to “see what happens” and the generosity to share and receive: […]

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How To Find The Right Guy (/Gal) On A Dating Site

How Do I Find The Right Guy Online? “What’s your selection process?” Jane asks me the other day. “[Your] journey to find the the right guy to date.” Jane is the founder and owner of Matchmaker for Hire and, obviously, a matchmaker. She tells me, “The biggest complaint in the real world of dating is […]

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The Best Places To Meet Women (For Shy Guys)

Where Are The Best Places to Meet Women? Whenever I’m asked by shy guys where the best places to meet women are, I say, “Online dating sites.” And then they sigh, or roll their eyes, or slump their shoulders—or all of these things—and say, “I tried online dating and it didn’t work for me.” And then I […]

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