How Much Time Should I Dedicate to Finding a Mate?

Feeling Frustrated with Finding a Mate… Grrr Whether you’re window shopping on dating sites or in the “real” world, the amount of time you set aside to find your right mate is the same. If you don’t think you can commit this much time to searching for your soulmate / life partner / future husband / naughty-concubinesque-wife / person-who-will-see-you-drool-on-your-pillow-and-not-flee-the-scene … […]

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50 First Dates―First Date #8: Ginger and The Professor, Too.


If you get the title of this blog, you’re as old as I am. If not, here’s the jingle. Dating site: Plenty of Fish Stats: Never married; no kids; no pets Work: Higher Education The Prof has a master’s degree loosely related to relationships. I have a diploma for a 6-month correspondence course for real […]

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Penis Size And Other Penis Matters

A Write-In Question About Penis Size and Other Penis Matters First of all, I’m not a firsthand expert in penis matters. Well, that’s a bit of a fib. I guess it depends. I’ve seen a few—sideways glance—but more importantly, I’m unfiltered and, even though I haven’t slept around (for years), I have asked around for […]

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Plenty Of Fish (Lips)

Dating Site: Plenty of Fish Lips Dating sites, social media sites, media in general, music videos and hell to the yah—pornhub, y’all. Wherever we turn, there are girls puckering up and posing with plenty of fish lips. I posted this meme on my social media site (Facebook) and caused a bit of a stir. Not the […]

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How To Flirt When You’re Shy

How to Flirt When You’re Shy (or Introverted) As with any new skill we learn, learning how to flirt when you’re shy comes with practice. Practice begins wherever we are now. But ain’t nothing gonna change, Charlie, if you don’t collect all your courage and begin. Note: This message isn’t directed at the Charlies of the […]

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