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Modern Dating Advice for Single Women

Guest Post by Katie Smith

We have generally heard that a man is supposed to date a woman. A man needs to approach us then convince us to be his date. After incurring all the efforts, he will win our heart and we’ll go on a date with him. But is this still relevant dating advice for women in the modern world?

What if a woman desires to propose a date to a man she’s attracted to?

Every woman has feelings, desires and aspirations. We can’t wait for our entire life for our dream boy to approach us. Are we just supposed to move forward and ask him for date?

Well, the answer is: “Yes!”

But to be successful in the attempt, we need to follow some of the top dating advice or tips that will help us date our dream man and at the same time not end up making a fool of ourself.

Dating Advice for Women

Follow this dating advice and you will certainly have the man of your desires.

Have Confidence in You

The first that thing we need is self-confidence. Don’t think about weird concepts like how our looks don’t suit his preferences or how we’re not a perfect match for him. These negative thoughts stop us from approaching him.

To win a man’s heart, we have to be determined to get the person of our desires by believing we deserve him.

Maturity

It’s important to know what a man looks for in a woman he wants to settle down with.

Men normally want intelligent and bold women. Yes, there are a few men who prefer less intelligent women. However, here we’re looking to date gentlemen who prefer smart, bold women.

They want a woman to give them advice on personal and professional issues and they look for smart, elegant women who are not only beautiful but also wise.

Over-reactions to conflict or constantly trying to be the centre of attention are qualities healthy men avoid.

Style

Nowadays, men prefer stylish women. We’d benefit by being conscious of our personal style, look stunning in our own way while allowing our personality to reflect our attitude.

This doesn’t mean wearing outfits that don’t suit us!

If we’re looking for a solid, monogamous relationship, it’s best to avoid overexposing our bodies, otherwise men assume we need a lot of sexual attention from any guy not just “our guy.”

Physical Attraction

If we are genuinely interested in a man, try some physical flirting gestures with him. Don’t be vulgar with gestures; he won’t respect that.

If we’re in close proximity to him, he’ll certainly think about us sexually if we use physical flirting like touching his arm. If he’s interested in us, then whenever we are near him he’ll remember the day we flirted.

For men, women who are physical with them in any small way makes them feel at top of the world and he may try to develop a friendship if he’s too shy to ask us out.

Flirting and Mischief

Once we’re friends, though, we must be mischievous and tease him playfully, both verbally and physically. Gauge that he loves the comments and that they don’t hurt his feelings, otherwise things can turn against us.

Once a relationship is broken it’s difficult to get things back on track. Teasing and having fun with him will make him feel that he’s someone special in our life. This way we can get along with him in a fun and enjoyable way.

It’s time for a Date

After becoming good friends, there’s no need to worry about consequences and we can ask him for date. Choose some special day for date, like a birthday of either of you or some other celebration.

Make a point of not being accompanied with friends, though. After all, it’s a special date where discussions will be special and potentially more intimate or romantic.

How to Initiate Conversation

Once you arrive at the decided venue, even if you’re good friends by date, it may feel awkward to initiate conversation.

Men feel nervous on their first date. It may be the same for you, but don’t skip this excellent opportunity. If he’s not starting the conversation, show initiative!

For instance, ask him, “Was it troublesome to find the place?” or “How was your day?”

Gradually, move forward to more serious discussions like “What are your expectations of the woman you would like to settle down with?”

His answer will reflect whether his expectations match your qualities or not.

Body Language

Always pay attention to body language. Try to make eye contact and avoid sitting with your arms crossed or lean away, which indicates that you prefer to distance yourself from him.

Good posture is attractive; it displays innate confidence.

Interacting

Try to make two-way conversation. See to it that you both are interacting actively throughout your date.

Don’t be bold just to shock him. Try to reflect more of your feminine side. Show him maturity.

Laugh at some of his jokes. Be interested in what he has to say. Allow him to speak as much as he can. In this way, you’ll get to know more about him. Talk about things that interest both of you.

Diplomacy

By this time, you’re good friends. Don’t make hurtful comments. However, if he mistakenly says something that hurts your feelings, tackle the situation diplomatically.

Avoid arguments and act maturely. At such times, a sensible decision is to change the topic until you’re calm enough to discuss it without anger. Ask him to dance or go for a walk.

Liquor and Drinking

There are many things we don’t know about our date. One such thing is about how much he drinks or how he feels about our drinking.

Drinking too much alcohol and blacking out on your first date is a major turnoff to good guys; have control on your alcoholic desires. No man would prefer that his date is an alcoholic. Besides, being drunk puts you at risk.

If your date can’t handle alcohol then you may want to re-evalute.

Sex

Although now you’ve known your date for several days now, don’t forget that this man is attracted to you because of physical gestures and flirting.

Since that day, he is dying to stroll along with you to the bedroom. However, as a wise and smart woman need not let it happen so early.

This is your first date and you need to give some time before letting things go further. It is a common tendency for men to date a girl only for sex if she gives it up easily.

Be cautious and take each step thoughtfully. He may try to sleep with you after a dinner date but go for a walk instead, be determined not to have sex too soon if you do not want to lose this man.

Give him any damn reason to avoid the one nightstand. Tell him you have to attend another party or you’re not feeling well after today’s activities or you don’t move that fast.

However, don’t hurt his masculinity by insulting him.

Once this date is successful, you’ll have piqued the interest of the man of your dreams. Now he’ll be the one revolving around you and wanting to impress you.

Meanwhile, you need to show him how much you care for him. Make him feel that you care for him sincerely and no other women on this earth can give him that. This way you’ll get respect from him and he’ll adore you for your love and self-respect.

If you follow this dating advice for women no doubt you’ll get promising results. This dating advice for women will help any woman get her man. Have confidence to make the “impossible” possible!

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AJ note:

This dating advice for women may seem antiquated, but guess what, it still holds true today. Of course, you could always try to buck the trend, but if you want to get a guy who’ll make you feel safe and taken care of (emotionally, at a minimum), these dating tips will get that guy.

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About the Author Anna Jorgensen

Dating, Love and Relationship Coach Founder: Wingmam, Vancouver, Canada Warning: Not PC, not a feminist ❤️


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