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Get the Guy to Kiss You! Oh, Yeah.

Guest Post by Katie Smith

It’s that time in your relationship which immediately takes it one step further. Whether you have dated him for five minutes or five weeks, looking forward to how to get a guy to kiss you is definitely nerve wracking.

Here’s the truth… it’s as nerve wracking for him as it is for us!

Regarding how to get a guy to kiss you, well, no matter where we are in the relationship, we have to set the game up in a way that he can do it without the risk of being rejected.

Here’s How to Get a Guy to Kiss You

Ask him, “When are you planning on kissing me?”

If we’ve gone out with him on a few dates, we already know that he’s interested or else he wouldn’t be there with us.

If he has yet to make the move, perhaps he’s shy, so just ask him, “So, when are you going to kiss me?”

It’ll show him that you’re interested and if he is interested, too, he’ll most likely laugh it off with relief and then make the move. If he doesn’t, then we know where we stand and can finally stop waiting for this guy to make his move.

Look at his lips.

Looking at his lips is a subtle non-verbal signal that will hardly go unnoticed. Although he doesn’t consciously realize that he’s doing it, it’s a sign that he’ll subconsciously get.

This particular subconscious signal will send him a message that not only do we like looking at his lips, but we would also enjoy experiencing them up close and personal. 😉

Break the touch barrier.

This is the age-old “dusting the fake lint off his shoulder” technique but it still works every time. Whenever we want to get a little closer to him and he still hasn’t made any move, just make the move yourself.

Draw his attention to your lips.

We don’t only want to let him know that we notice his lips, we also want him to notice our lips.

A bright lipstick can do the trick, but so will some cleverly placed nonverbal cues. If he says something shocking, put our hand over our mouth while laughing. Or when he asks a thoughtful question, tapping our finger on our lips as we playfully pretend we’re thinking of the answer can draw his attention.

These subtle clues give him the message that this is where we want to be touched.

Linger

Men aren’t dumb. They know there’s a point after the date when a certain action is expected. If he doesn’t make any move yet, either he isn’t interested or we don’t give him enough “yes” signals.

Linger after the date and find out what happens. He’ll know what we’re waiting for him to fill up that awkward moment with!

Minimize the distance needed for him to kiss you.

As suggested by Cosmopolitan magazine, start with the “hug & hold” technique. This just sounds like a lingering move. Once we reduce the physical distance between ourself and him, it takes some pressure off of him.

Just say, “I’m a hugger!” Then give him a hug after the date if it’s your first date. Hold for couple minutes then look into his eyes and let him know that you had a great time. He will know what you want.

Conclusion

When it comes to kissing, he does want to kiss as much as we do, but he won’t take the step if there’s a risk of humiliation or rejection. We can make this easier for him by setting the cues that give him nothing but green lights to go for it.

But, if we set the scenario just right and he still doesn’t go for it, well, the chances are that he doesn’t want to. If that is the case, don’t push the scene or you’ll be the one feeling humiliated and rejected.

Know your guy and set the cues, then you shouldn’t have any trouble getting him to kiss you.

These are just a few tips on how to get a guy to kiss you… I hope you will have plenty of great kisses!

Author Bio:katie smith

Katie Smith is the enthusiastic woman who loves writing about love relationships and lifestyle on Reviewmoon.

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AJ Note: Want to get the man of your dreams? Check out my Get A Boyfriend Program where you’ll learn more than how to get a guy to kiss you, you’ll get the step-by-step guide to becoming a Goddess capable of getting any man you want.

 

 


About the Author Anna Jorgensen

Dating, Love and Relationship Coach Founder: Wingmam, Vancouver, Canada Warning: Not PC, not a feminist ❤️


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