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Transform Your Sexual Life and Relationship

Interview with Tracey Anne

Tell us a bit about yourself and how did you become a dating / love coach?

Relationships have always been important to me. I come from a very close, loving family. I recently became attracted to this work so that I could help other singles develop and have successful loving relationships. Also, I wanted to attain these valuable tools for myself.

What services do you offer?

I am an intimacy and relationship coach.  That means that I work with clients to move beyond shame and to be in real relationship. We engage in authentic client relationships and bring our own vulnerability to the practice. In this way, they get to see that we are not perfect and to learn about being in a real relationship.

We offer some talk but more experiential coaching with our clients, meaning that it is an active and interactive process, whereby the coach guides the client through exercises to help them feel more comfortable in their body, their sexuality, their intimacy.

It is often focused on helping clients feel more embodied and mindful in their day-to-day interactions. As a Somatica Coach, I practice authentic relating with my client to help them learn, grow, and transform in their sexual lives and relationships.

What is Somatica Coaching?

The Somatica Method is a holistic, loving and systematic approach to sex and relationship coaching that invites people to move beyond shame, clarify their needs and boundaries, live emotionally connected and erotically embodied lives, and experience the joy and satisfaction of great sex and authentic relationships.

The skills required for success in sex and relationships are learnable. The Somatica Method is pleasure-based, interactive and experiential and based on up-to-date neuroscience research about how people learn, connect and experience personal growth.

Dating can be somewhat stressful, how do you recommend coping with the stress?

Always remember a first date is just a date, a “getting to know you” experience. Keep in mind at all times…you are a so valuable! Make it a daily practice to look in the mirror and take a deep breath.  Know and honor your self-worth. Someone will be lucky to be in a relationship with you. And it should be the right person, not just the first person who expresses interest.

In your opinion, what are the top traits women look for in men? And vice versa?

I think women look for a man who is faithful, reliable, communicative and kind.

I think men seek affection, authenticity, respect, and can hardly resist a confident, smiling, laughing woman.

What would you say is most important thing to do before a first date?

Make sure you feel good about how you look before your date. Take your time getting ready. Before you go, take a moment to breathe in confidence in how valuable you are. Bring your authenticity and warmth on your date with you. Don’t forget to smile. Look for ways you can connect with the other person, like common interests.

Online dating – Yes or No? Why?

I personally have not had much success with this, but I know lots of people who have! I think it is ok and another avenue to meet someone other than a bar, church, or school.

What do you think is the best app/dating site for meeting someone?

Lately I am enjoying what I am hearing about Bumble.  EHarmony is great, and I know match.com is a very good place to meet quality people.

How important is your online dating profile? What should it include?

I think it should include great photos #1. Perhaps one at the office, one outdoors, one with a group of friends. Highlight your interests, and what you are looking for. Keep it brief and to the point, but add your personality.

What shouldn’t it include?

In your bio, my advice is do not complain about online dating or the people you are meeting if you had bad experiences on any dating website.

Do you think one should play “The Game” if they’re looking for a serious relationship?

I don’t think it is a good idea to play a game, but at the same time, don’t text back paragraphs to the other person, it shows too much interest. There is an art to proper escalation (texting and in person) which we experientially can practice in Somatica.

What do you recommend doing in order to keep the fire burning?

I teach all kinds of tools for this! One thing that comes to mind is helping my clients share their desires and fantasies with their partners. It takes self-awareness, conscious communication and non-judgement and acceptance. Sometimes the process of articulating these desires can open up new avenues of play and seduction.

What do you love most about helping people?

I absolutely love creating that “spark” in consciousness for people. New awareness. I love the gratitude they feel towards me afterwards. Knowing how I am helping people integrate their sexuality into their lives… It is the most valuable thing in the world to me.

If you could only give one piece of advice to people looking for love, what would it be?

As a hopeless romantic, my advice is:

Do not close your heart, and don’t ever give up! Give Love, and Love cannot help but find you. ❤

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If Tracey’s work and style resonates with you, please contact her at:

Tracey Anne
Somatica Seattle
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About the Author Anna Jorgensen

Dating, Love and Relationship Coach Founder: Wingmam, Vancouver, Canada Warning: Not PC, not a feminist ❤️


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