Is Feminism Driving Men to Stay Single?
What is MGTOW? It’s an acronym that stands for “men going their own way,” and it’s a thing because — in my Modern Feminist opinion — we’ve taken feminism too far. If that statement got your back up, then that only supports my point.
We can be pissy about it, or we can be open-minded goddesses willing to look at why a fellow #BossBabe and Modern Feminist — me! — would write such a thing.
The fact is we’ve scared men into being wimpy because #rapeisreal, and no guy wants to go to jail for touching a woman on the elbow.
You may not want your elbow touched, but I sure as F do.
Let’s talk double standards.
If a woman touched a man on the elbow, would anyone call her out? Hell, no.
But if a man touches a woman without consent anywhere, he risks jail time or at the very least sexual harassment charges.
This is not equality.
My personal belief is that a man should be allowed to touch us anywhere that he would touch his conservative grandmother in public, as long as his intent is non-threatening. This means no touching “bottoms” or “tops” or the face.
But, Anna, how can you prove intent?
We can’t.
But we can say, “No” or “Please don’t touch me,” and the man’s further actions will clarify his intent. Or modify it if necessary.
Do gentlemen not deserve a sliver of leeway? I think so.
Not every man is a brute, a rapist, a misogynist, or a threat to women’s safety.
Just like some radical feminists are WGTOW (Women Going Their Own Way) and avoiding men altogether because all they’ve experienced are assholes, some men are choosing MGTOW.
To me, that’s sad.
And unnecessary!
We can complement each other and learn to live happily together, in relationships as well as society, if we simply learn to understand the opposite sex and try to relate to them on their terms. (I’m teaching men this same principle.)
It takes nothing away from being a woman to give a reasonable man what he needs.
xo
AJ aka Anna, Lover of Love
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I need your help! I am somewhere in the middle of agreeing with feminism and MGTOW. Huge spectrum right???I am a woman madly in love with a man. This man call him X has everything I could ever need and at the same time beliefs that make my skin crawl . He has been manipulated and tormented at a young age by his mother, sister and every woman he has dated. He says things that can absolutely scare the shit out of me but somehow I see the glass half full because I know under all those limiting beliefs , unraveling all that trauma and the emotional scars there is a shiny diamond of a man that deserves real love and I am ready and willing to give him what he needs. I believe that’s why I was brought into his life and after 10 months I am unwavered . He is on his path of discovery and it’s not my place to change him but to give him something that I equivalently goes against what he believes. The more love I give the more those belief systems crumble . The more I bite my tongue listen to his beliefs without attacking him in contradiction the more impact my caring actions have that prove those beliefs do not go across the board to all woman. It is very slow , and Every day I see a little bit of fear crumble away and that Diamond begins to shine it’s light.Some days are excruciating and painful because he says things that are opposite of how he feels and are a way of defending his hearts safety. Point blank .. I know X loves me ! We are 2 people that when we are being completely authentic it couldn’t be more clear we’re meant to be together. That being said , I don’t think I can do this completely alone . I am a very strong woman but I am afraid when I am at my lowest and he is high and mighty on his MGToW he will push me away for good . I would love some input , a show to talk or anyway you could help me buff this gem . I guarantee he is a one a kind and quite possibly a great hope to eventually help a lot of men who are going through the effects of toxic internet idealism.