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Hot and Heavy After Two Dates Then Ghosted - WTF? So I went on a first date with this guy we've been talking for a couple of weeks he's been texting me and calling me we FaceTime each other and we finally went out on Saturday I thought everything was going great he gave me a hug and told me that we will talk next time so we went out again on Monday the date went great no kissing no sex we just had a good time Tuesday we've been texting each other I asked him to he had a good time he said yeah so I haven't heard from him on Wednesday and Thursday and Friday should I be worried or no?
AJ: Wingmam Motto: Always leave them wanting more.
Save texting for information not conversation, leave something to be discussed in person, leave some mystery. Texts are for what time to meet, where to meet, I'm going to be late sort of thing.
Also, even though there's no need to engage in sex or sexual activity, the guy has to at least know he'll eventually get there, so you have to make sure there's sexual tension. No sexual tension = friend zone.
Say, "Oh wow, you're so sexy" or "You look really hot in that shirt" etc. A man must feel like you're sexually attracted to him.
Solution: Wait for him to come back. It may be too late. Either way do not initiate a convo! If he contacts be friendly, fun and flirty - make him want more. But cut off the text communication!
Say something like, "Hey, let's save this for when I see you." Don't offer plans, let him initiate! If he doesn't leave it alone.
Always leave them wanting more. Whoever is more invested must temper themselves more. xo AJ