Project 50 First Dates―First Date #3: Facetious Financier

My third official first date for social study “Project: 50 First Dates.” Dating site: match.com Stats: Mid 40s, no kids Profession: finance “Hey, did you used to be in real estate? … Never mind, I Googled you … [something about a risqué Halloween costume from a decade ago …].” I’m thinking: Oh, shit. (And) He’s hot! (And) Wait, I’m […]

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How soon should I have sex with a guy I’m dating? [Video]

Women often ask me, “How soon should I have sex with a guy I’m dating?” Men never ask—shocking, I know. The surprise, however, is that ladybirds usually ask me this question after they’ve had sex and haven’t heard from the guy. Again. Reality Land is that, for most gentlemen, having sex right away isn’t a […]

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What To Talk About on Date #2

Project: 50 First Dates—First 2nd Date! Interestingly enough, First Date #1 (The G Man) who blew it after the first 1st date—details to follow—and then made a big recovery—hold your horses, I’ll get to it—ended up coming in as my first 2nd date. You still with me? So what do you talk about on date […]

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Handle Rejection Like A Stormtrooper [Video]

Rejection sucks. Or … does it? Okay, fine. It does. At least when it comes to matters of the heart. But in this vlog, you’ll learn how to handle rejection like a Stormtrooper, baby, yeah! And maybe even look at it as a welcome challenge. Read on… When I was but a wee insecure teenage fledgling, […]

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Project 50 First Dates — First Date #2: Slouchy Stargazer

My second official first date for social study “Project: 50 First Dates.” Like The G Man from First Date #1 (see blog), SS is another gentleman I’m impressed by because … he’s got the balls to go on a fake date, the openness and optimism to “see what happens” and the generosity to share and receive: […]

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