50 First Dates―First Date #7: Long Distance Dating?

Dating site: POF (I think) then Facebook 2010 (!) with a follow-up last week (!!) Stats: Early 40s, no kids Work: Building / Architectural Designer Things to contemplate when considering long distance dating or a long distance relationship … I have no recollection of chatting with Seattle Sailor, but it was six years ago after all. […]

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He Cancels A Date Last Minute…Grrr! [Video]

What do we do when he cancels a date last minute? Fellas, it would do you well in the dating world to read and learn … and ladies who be jamming last minute—don’t. This applies to both sides. Here’s the dealio, as far as dating goes: Most of the time, women take way longer to get […]

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Project 50 First Dates—First Date #5: Smoke Signals

Is Smoking a Dealbreaker? Dating site: match.com Age: 50s Kids: don’t think so. Work: management In all fairness, it was my fault. I didn’t read his profile. Or maybe I did, and I can’t remember because they―dating site profiles―start blurring together after a while. Hey, don’t judge―this is honesty. Anyone on a dating site long […]

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Project: 50 First Dates―Date #4: Women’s Safety

For Women’s Safety I’m Posting This. Dating site: match.com Age: early 50s Kids: none Work: network management Concerned Citizen messages me on match.com to see if I’m seriously looking for a mate or selectively soliciting business. I reply back, “Both. Either.” Then offer, “You’ll get honest feedback. Might help with the next one if I’m […]

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Project 50 First Dates―First Date #3: Facetious Financier

My third official first date for social study “Project: 50 First Dates.” Dating site: match.com Stats: Mid 40s, no kids Profession: finance “Hey, did you used to be in real estate? … Never mind, I Googled you … [something about a risqué Halloween costume from a decade ago …].” I’m thinking: Oh, shit. (And) He’s hot! (And) Wait, I’m […]

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