You’ve gone on a day with a guy and you really dig him but his actions are hard to read so how to know if he likes you after the date or if he’s just a player can be tough.
But there are signs a guy likes you and there are signs a guy is a player.
I received a question from a WingmamTV viewer about how to know if he likes you after the date or if he’s a player or if he’s just super busy.
A week ago I went on a date with a guy and after the date I send him the “thank you” text and he responded with a -.- face (This emoticon is just our inside joke for every time that I’m extremely polite.)
Anyways, after that, three days later he liked my post on Facebook late at night…
Is he a player? Is he really just that busy?
He is a director so I know that his schedule is very very packed and fucked up…
Should I forget him or what? Is he gonna call me again? I really like him and I think I have a little crush -.-
All is not lost, because…
The positive: He was checking out your social media late at night and engaging.
The less positive: Barely. Girl, a “like” is weak, especially for a director.
Which brings us to…
If you don’t remember anything else about dating advice, remember this:
If he like you, there won’t be any doubt whatsoever.
He’s a director. That’s a status career. He can definitely get tail any time he wants. (I know a few directors.)
But just because a man can get tail (read: sex) any time he wants, doesn’t mean he’ll always want only sex.
At some point, most men want to find a woman they can wake up with every day.
If a man is still building his kingdom, then his career will come first. (If he’s a great lover, you’ll come, too, but it’ll be when his work is done for the day.)
Men need to establish themselves in their work and financial lives before they innately feel ready to settle down and take care of a woman.
Yep, even if she making bank, baby. In fact, especially if she’s making big coin.
So, yeah, he could be super busy. But if he’s into you, he’ll reach out —
— as long as you gave him the tingles down under.
You don’t have to be a cock tease. In fact, don’t. That’s bad form. But…
Every man needs to feel sexually desired by the woman he’s with. Even if he has to wait to have sex with her. This is a primary need for men
(Compare this to women’s need to feel cherished.)
Reminder, if he likes you he’ll be intrigued. If he doesn’t or he’s just a player, he’ll push for more sext chat (or more) and then fade away quickly. #GhostTown
Know your worth and don’t give away more than you’re ready to, but also give the guy hope of a green light for sexual intimacy somewhere in his future.
Or more intimacy if you’ve already crossed the kiss line or the touch line or the whatever line.
Hint: Don’t give it all up on the first date or he’ll have nothing to earn.
Men need to earn their reward to value it.
If you’re acting the same with him with him as you’d be acting with your best girl friend, you’re not flirting, girl.
Step it up!
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Vancouver Matchmaker and Dating, Love and Relationship Expert Founder: Wingmam