Using Texts to Make Him Chase You
Texting can be fun, flirty, safe, and…efficient! Texts can be powerful and will make him chase you if properly delivered, so be careful with his love-struck heart.
These texts assume you’ve only been on a couple of dates with a guy, but they also work to spark a relationship that’s fizzling! Because no matter what stage you’re in, men like to chase so make him chase you, gals!
But, Anna isn’t that like playing games?
Yes!
Men like games. Especially the cat and mouse game, because that’s how men are built.
A man wants you to make him chase you!
Your texts to make him chase you rev up his attraction to you! But there are rules to every game…
Make Him Chase You Rule #1—Do Tease a Man… Correctly
Men love to be teased as long as the tease doesn’t slight his manliness or bruise his ego.
Example of a good tease text:
“Not sure I could go out with someone as sexy as you. I’d be distracted all the time… ;)”
Example of a bad tease text:
“I don’t know if I could go out with someone who drives a Mustang, but you are cute.”
The first text offers sexual validation, subtle innuendo, and playfulness with the wink.
The second text insults his choice in cars and invalidates his sexuality. Puppies are cute.
Make Him Chase You Rule #2—Do be a Keeper not a Cocktease
Men love to chase as long as there’s a perceived chance that he can catch you.
If you keep teasing a man with only sexual innuendo and no real substance he’ll see you as a cocktease, not a keeper.
Sprinkle in some serious-ish deep level conversation. My rule of thumb: One tease per three “text conversations”.
Example of a deep level text:
“I’m having a blah day. Tell me something good about your day? It’ll cheer me up!”
This text is serious but not too serious, and still fun and playful. Plus, he gets to share something about himself while providing something for you. Men want to provide for women, not necessarily financially!
Make Him Chase You Rule #3—Don’t Become a Penpal aka Textpal
Men need visual, chemical and, pheromonal stimulation to continue to build attraction otherwise, the sex appeal dwindles and dies quickly.
You must create and maintain sexual tension to keep the attraction alive, or you end up in the friend zone or labeled with the “Do Not Reply” caption on a man’s phone.
If you text too much in between in-person meet and greets, your text interactions become boring, the spark fades, and is difficult *cough* near impossible *cough* to rekindle that fire.
But refer to Rule #2: too much sextual tension and you’re a cocktease.
The way around this is to get together and hang out in the real world—not his bedroom unless you’re at that stage—A-sap.
Make Him Chase You Takeaways
- Men want to chase you.
- Men like the right kind of teasing.
- Men don’t like a cocktease.
- Men lose interest quickly when the relationship doesn’t progress in some way.
- Men commit to women they spend time with and like.
This post is a companion blog for another one I wrote—3 Texts To Make Him Chase You—on EZ Dating Coach. You can read it here.
xo AJ
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