(This Trait Will Get Men Chasing You!)
Men love women who are beautiful, vivacious, charming, flirty and who give a hint of cleavage or legs, right? Do you believe me? Yes, but you might also be a bit disappointed, yes?
Well, I ain’t gonna fib. Men do love those qualities in women—but we all do! Perhaps minus the cleavage, though stats show that even women are more (platonically) attracted to stereotypically beautiful females.
Reality land is that humans are attracted to any form of beauty.
But it’s also true that men love all shapes and sizes. Look around, you might see some less than stereotypically gorgeous Hollywoodesque couples happily in love!
And since we can only do so much about what God gave us—and should learn to love what the G Man gave us!—then we’ve got to use the other thing She gave us: Our choice.
Wha? Huh?
Here’s what I mean …
Men Love Women Who …
Have a full life.
Yep, that simple.
Women who have a full and fulfilling life tend to be happier, more independent, less needy, more interesting, more engaging (charming, even if subtle), and they tend to have higher self-esteem and standards.
Men love women who have self-confidence and high standards.
The more balanced a woman’s life is, the more likely she’ll have both of these qualities.
Men Love Women Who … Takeaway
Get your life together, and then you will be just fine! (I think that’s from a Spice Girls song.)
Men Love Women Who … Actionable
- Choose an area of your life that could use some work—health, finance, work, social, etc.
- Figure out one thing you can do today to fix that area.
- Doooooo it. Do it for your country. (That line is from the movie Grease, which totally ages me—I’m okay with that.)
xo AJ
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