How to Get Sexy to Your Ideal Mate
The man of your dreams is not just a fantasy. But! The fantasy you have of what that man might be may not be quite what you really truly want and need, but you can attract the man of your dreams.
However…If you want a sugar daddy or other superficial qualities in a man, this is the wrong site for you. (Hint: Try sugardaddie.com)
But if you want to attract the man of your dreams, not an unrealistic fantasy, and be hearthappy in love, keep reading.
What we think we want vs. what we actually want are often different.
Example:
Like millions of other women, I want Gerard Butler. But the truth is that I I know very little about who the man really is. I have an idealized version in my head of who I imagine him to be.
And who am I kidding? If given the chance, I’d be on him like white on rice.
The good news is that many of the qualities Gerry has (in my imagination), aside from wealth and celebrity, can be found in your average regular dude.
Example:
Gerry reminds me of my dad. My dad was unapologetically real. I adored my dad. My mom adored my dad. My dad was far from perfect: he was overweight, unhealthy, uneducated, and he swore like the trucker he was. But he was perfect for my mom, and he was perfect as my dad.
Often, the things we are attracted to remind us of the good and less good qualities of the people who influenced our early lives.
How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams
Figure out what you really want in a man, what you really really want
Ask yourself why you want that
Ask yourself what that kind of man would want in his ideal woman
Do you want to be that kind of woman?
If yes, take the steps to become the kind of woman.
How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams Takeaway
We might get lucky and win the love lottery, but we have a better chance of winning our dream man’s heart if we invest in bettering ourselves.
How to Attract the Man of Your Dream Actionable
Do the five steps above!
xo AJ
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