Greetings, Wingmam Women!

Merry Christmas! (Or whatever you celebrate or don’t celebrate.)

I’ll keep this post short and sweet because it’s Christmastime, and I need some down time.

Women are terrible for not giving themselves enough “time off!” We are natural givers and seem to be born with the guilt of never doing enough for others.

Well, it’s time to take a stand! And sit down.

I’m sort of being silly here, but the point of this otherwise pointless post, is simply to take care of filling your own love bucket first. We simply cannot pour from an empty bucket!

Speaking of love …

Women are also terrible for getting offended easily. I gotta tell ya: men are really difficult to offend. Also must say, ladies, I kinda like that about them.

So, how about we love with a little less expectation? I’m going to.

That doesn’t mean I won’t ask for what I need — heck, that would go against the first rule of filling my bucket first!

But I’m going to ask for what I want without expectation *cough* while being ready to walk away if my “want” is really a “must have.” Whether from a man or from a friend, the same standard will apply. I do declare!

Well, that’s all I’ve got. Time to refill the bucket!

Sending you lots of love. So much fricken love! (I’m waving it toward you with my fingers a flutter! Do you feel it?)

See you in 2018!

xo
AJ