From over 35 years of active self-learning, these are some of the books that I draw from for all my teachings, programs and opinions.

I’m not a psychologist, clinician or scientist so I’ve relied on the expertise of those who are, as well what I and other introspecting souls have observed in others and experienced ourselves.

The books, videos, workshops, and expert advice of many dedicated and knowledgable professionals provide the information I try to distill into practical tools we can all use to grow and better ourselves.

May you enjoy the learning journey while giving yourself grace!

You can find most of these books on Amazon or through your local bookstore. 

In no particular order, some of the books I’ve read:

Books Read:

  • The Bible
  • War of Art by Steven Pressfield
  • The Brain That Changes Itself by Dr. Norman Droidge
  • The Manual by Steve Santagati
  • How to Be Happy Dammit by Karen Salmansohn
  • Prince Harming Syndrome by Karen Salmansohn
  • Better Single Than Sorry by Jen Schefft
  • The One Minute Goddess by
  • It’s Called a Breakup Because It’s Broken by Greg Behrent
  • In The Meantime Iyanla Vanzant 
  • Mate by Tucker Max (WakeUP2Luv Module 3!)
  • The 5 Love Languages by Dr Gary Coleman
  • The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle 
  • A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle 
  • The Secret by Rhonda Byrne
  • The Law of Attraction by Esther and Gerry Hicks
  • Men are From Mars Women are From Venus by Dr. John Gray
  • How to Be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne 
  • The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz
  • The Fifth Agreement by Don Miguel Ruiz
  • The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho
  • The Untethered Soul by Michael A. Singer
  • Mans Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankyl
  • Code of Honour by Steve Santagati
  • The Universe Has Your Back by Gabriel Bernstein 
  • The 7 Spiritual Laws of Success by Deepak Chopra
  • Excuses be Gone by Wayne Dyer
  • The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey
  • Unlimited Power by Tony Robbins
  • Awaken the Giant Within by Tony Robbins
  • Joel Osteen (ever day a Friday, break out, You can you will, the power of I am)
  • Maximum Achievement by Brian Tracy
  • Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki and Sharon Lecher
  • The Wealthy Barber by David Chilton
  • Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill
  • How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
  • The Art of Not Giving a Fuck by Mark Manson
  • Necessary Endings by Dr. Henry Cloud
  • The Male Brain by Louann Brizendine
  • A Return to Love by Marianne Williamson
  • Manifesting the Love You Want by Michele Gilbert (?)
  • No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover
  • Get the Guy by Matthew Hussey
  • How to be Interesting by
  • The Shyness Solution by 
  • The Little Book of Confidence by
  • Childhood Sexual Abuse book (name?) by
  • The Power of Belief(?) by Dr. Bruce Lipton?
  • Daring Greatly by Brene Brown
  • Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway by Dr. Susan Jeffers
  • Think Like a Man Act Like a Lady by Steve Harvey
  • Attracting Genuine Love by Gay and Katie Hendricks
  • The Art of Closing the Deal by Zig Ziglar
  • You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay
  • The E myth by 
  • E Squared (& revisited) by Pam Grout
  • How to Create Chemistry With Anyone by Leil Lowndes
  • The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin
  • Outliers by Malcolm Gladwell
  • The Road Less Travelled by
  • The Gifts of Imperfection Brene Brown
  • Who Moved My Cheese by Spenser Johnson
  • 10% Happier by Dan 
  • The Charge by Brendan Bouchard 
  • Finding Your Own North Star by Martha Beck
  • Bounce Back by Karen Salmansohn
  • The Goddess of Happiness by
  • The Power of Surrender by Dr. Judith Orloff
  • Modern Romance by Aziz Ansari
  • I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Maya Agelou
  • Strengths 2.0 by 
  • Eat Pray Love by Elizabeth Gilbert
  • Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert
  • The Celestine Prophesy by 
  • Conversations with God By Neil Donald Walsh
  • Flow by 
  • Braving the Wilderness by Brene Brown
  • Attached by Amir Levine, M.D.
  • David and Goliath by Malcolm Gladwell
  • The Happiness Hypothesis by Jonathan Haidt
  • The Four Tendencies by Gretchen Rubin
  • Quiet by Susan Cain
  • Thinking Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman
  • Against Empathy by Paul Bloom
  • How to Fall in Love with Anyone by Mandy Len Catron
  • Influence the Psychology of Persuasion by Robert Cialdini
  • The State of Affairs by Esther Perel
  • Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel 
  • Have a Little Faith by Mitch Albom
  • Tuesday’s with Moray by Mitch Albom
  • The Voice of Knowledge by Don Miguel Ruiz
  • The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene 
  • Creative Visualization by Shakti Guwain
  • How to Make People Like You by Nicholas Boothman
  • Spousenomics by Paula Szuchman
  • You Do You by Sarah Knight
  • The Game of Desire by Shan Boodram
  • Feeling Good Together by Dr. David D. Burns M.D.
  • 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work by John M. Gottman, PHD
  • Everything is F*cked by Mark Manson
  • Loving What Is by Byron Katie
  • The Confidence Game by Maria Konnikova
  • The Highly Sensitive Person by Elaine Aron
  • Breath by Dr James Nestor
  • Evolve Your Brain by Joe Dispenza DC
  • 12 Rules for Life by Dr Jordan Peterson
  • Projections by Karl Deisseroth
  • The Laws of Human Nature by Robert Greene
  • Hashimoto’s Protocol by Isabella Wentz
  • Gender and Our Brains by Gina Rippon
  • Models by Mark Manson
  • The Game by Neill Strauss
  • The Evolution of Desire by David M Buss
  • Brain Energy by Christopher Palmer MD
  • Trauma by Paul Conti, MD
  • Of Boys and Men by Richard V. Reeves
  • Chatter by Ethan Cross

Tony Robbins


I love Tony. I’ve started reading Tony Robbins self-development books and listening to his audio programs when I was fifteen. Yep, I was a popular teen. (But not so much.) Tony has spent so much time studying human psychology, he’s a walking encyclopedia and, yes, world expert, on the subject. He knows human dynamics better than most. He lives and breathes for this stuff. So do I, but he’s been focused on it for longer and has worked with many millions of people. Impressive, indeed. TYTR

Find his books on Amazon here

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