Aka How To Be More Confident With Women!
… aka How To Drive Women Wild With Desire & Passion … I’m writing this Gerard Butler blog for men in “man language.”
Dame Disclosure: Just in case there is a woman reading this, take heed: potentially offensive material ahead you may learn something from!
What is “man language”?
- Short sentences. And paragraphs. (And blogs.) Like this.
- Naughty quips laid out on the page. (You’re welcome. *wink*)
- Get to the point-ism.
The Pointism …
What makes Gerard Butler Mr. Sexy Pants
His…
- Crooked grin. It’s lippy, as in cheeky/naughty/mysterious/smug/grr.
- Authenticity aka I-don’t-give-a-care-if-you-like-me-or-agree-with-me (but he’s not a dick about it).
- Erect posture (a purposeful word choice). Erect reads: confident, which leads me to …
- Confidence, and that kinda goes back to authenticity. He’s comfortable with who he is.
- Laugh—
- is hearty and unapologetic, and
- comes easily (probably like most of the ladies he’s been with).
Sure, Gerard Butler is a handsome devil—and rich and famous and blah blah blah—but!
There are plenty of other dudes who have good looks, money, and fame but are not all that sexy.
(The ladies are nodding, I assure you, gents.)
The good news is you don’t have to be Gerard Butler to get extra sexy points!
Just get good at the five things that make Mr. Butler deliciously appealing to women.
I’d eat that with a spoon. 😉
xo
AJ
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In the meantime, here’s a short playlist on building confidence if you’re not at a Gerard Butler level of self-assurance:
Thanks for the post card. I got it, thank you.
So I’m working on my homework ? (stop ) my neighbor stops by ,hey can you work on my wife’s jeep ?sure (stop) my daughter’s floor floods (fixed). Now back to jeep (stop)don’t feel right doc say’s I’ve got shingles (wtf ! )finished my homework (stop) scratch ,scratch , (stop) look in the mirror. Dam I’m a sexy beast ! Its all about the attitude : ) scratch : (
I think GB has a bit of an accent also. I like his movies but other than that…
I think confidence, self assuredness with that sort of aloofness you spoke of where he doesn’t care if you do or you don’t.
I learned this by speaking to strangers in public frequently. Say hello, talk about the weather, etc. move on to women I was interested in, give nice comments like, pretty dress, like your shirt, if she’s wearing strappy heels—Love your shoes *wink*. If she doesn’t respond let it go but keep doing it, eventually you’ll get better at your delivery and at least some of them will respond positively. Practice those winks also. It’s great if you can pull it off naturally and confidently and you can if you practice.
Practice in those nonthreatening situations and you’ll progress up to the challenging ones. Every power hitter in baseball strikes out more often than the base hit guys (usually), but they hit more home runs also. So keep going to the plate and swing away.
Swing away. Swing for the fn fence … the third deck … the damn parking lot.