Average Joe’s Dating Educated Women? Yep!
If you’ve considered dating educated women but don’t know if it’s a good idea or if an educated woman would consider dating you, keep reading!
Reality Land: 40-70% of new students entering post secondary schools are women!
This is both good and bad news for men.
Interesting Tidbits About More Women Entering Post-Ed
Feminism
If you’re in a place in your life when you’re looking for a good time not a long time you’ll have plenty of cozy companionship with women in college or university.
Feminism brought with it sexual liberation and freedom for women that men have enjoyed for years.
There’s a good chance dating educated women means you won’t need to commit to anything serious.
The less good news is…
Hypergamy
Generally, women don’t want to “date down.”
This means an educated woman often expects a man to have a formal education if she’s to consider him for more than a one nighter.
Yep, you can get around this by improving yourself. (Get my WakeUP2Luv program for the detailed road map on doing that.)
Compatibility
Educated women don’t only prefer formally educated men because there’s a (perceived) higher chance of the man making bank—
Plenty of people are doing well without any formal education thanks to the diversity of opportunity brought to us by the internet.
—but if you’re not formally educated, dating educated women means you need to have some knowledge and/or intellectual ability.
More on that in the video, but suffice it to say educated women want men with any combination of:
- Ambition to obtain knowledge
- Drive to self-improve
- Mental / intellectual stimulation
There’s a difference between intelligence, knowledge and formal education.
Pros and Cons of Dating Educated Women
Whether or not dating an educated woman is a pro or con largely depends on what your beliefs and values are and whether or not they align with hers.
Potential Pros
- She may be able to contribute more $ to the relationship.
- Potentially interesting intellectual conversations.
- More options (women) to choose from. #supplyanddemand
Potential Cons
- Greater potential she’s a hard core feminist or social justice warrior.
- She may act superior or stuck up to men with less formal education.
- She may have impossibly high standards. #nevergoodenough
If you like the idea of dating an educated woman or simply want more women to choose from the best thing you can do is develop the traits all women appreciate.
Yep, my WakeUP2Luv program shares the details, but I’ll warn you… it’s a comprehensive course and will kinda make you look at where you sabotage yourself.
(Don’t worry, you don’t have to dwell on childhood trauma!)
If you haven’t already, consider dating educated women because you’ll open the door to a greater supply of single ladies!
More details in the video, including how to know if you should date an educated smarty-pants!
Check it out!
xo AJ
p.s. Um, whether or not you want to date an educated woman, ALL women appreciate the traits you’ll develop from taking my WakeUP2Luv program. #brokenrecord
Also, why not!, here’s a playlist on what women really want aka #hypergamy…
Anna, this was really a good video. Please though will you provide several examples for each of those 12 tips. While the subject seems easy to understand, examples would really help. For instance, saying no, examples that are effective would help. – Thank you!
Noted, thanks for watching! 🙂 AJ
Okay let’s talk about a woman who say has a PhD. and is over 50 and divorced. What are the things I as a man over 60 need to be looking out for if I only have a BS and am retired? What about a woman who is 40-50 and has an MA/MS in her chosen field? Any difference?
Thanks for reading my blog (and watching my videos)! Start by watching my playlist on dating advice for men over 50 here and if you need more specific advice please visit my coaching options page here.
The one thing I’ll say here is to always assume you’re good enough for her and no matter where she may “exceed” you, train yourself to think you’re on a level playing field! And if that’s a bit of a challenge for you then you’ll want to get my WakeUP2Luv program here where part of what you’ll learn is how to provide what all women (even the most educated ones) want in the ways that are authentic for you. Good luck!
Hi Anna.
I am curious to know, only if you care to share, the month and day of your birthday?
Terry
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May 24th, 1971 😳