12 Steps of Intimacy (From 1st Glance to Sex)

Hit a Home Run with The 12 Steps of Intimacy

Guys, how to turn a woman on while making her feel safe with you requires a progression of 12 steps of intimacy in the proper order.

What’s in it for you?

Glad you asked!


Effective seduction is when you arrive at the end goal (bowchicawowow) with her begging you for more.

In other words, if you learn how to seduce a woman properly it will be a win-win because you’ll both be super turned on and wanting to go the distance.

The 12 steps of intimacy (based on the book, The 12 Stages of Intimacy, by Desmond Morris) should be done in order for good reason.

What Do Women Need Most?

What women need most from men is to feel safe (while also feeling a little bit of danger, but not real danger)!

So, by following the 12 steps of intimacy you’ll be prepared to lead the interaction with a woman and get to have a way better experience.

This doesn’t mean that the process of seduction needs to take a long time!

Heck, no!

Even if you’re looking for a casual relationship, short term fling or hook-up, following these seduction steps will simply get you there faster with less chance of rejection. (Or jail time!)

Reduce your chance of rejection? What guy wouldn’t want that!


Yes, there’s a “but”…

If you want to find your soulmate or you think the girl you’re attracted to might have long term relationship potential, then you’ll want to take some of these steps a bit slower. (Especially, step 3!)

There’s also a big reason — if you’re looking for a girlfriend — that you’ll want to take it slower even if you really like her and you’re both super turned on. (I explain in the video.)

And finally, of course, never never never seduce a woman without her consent! #gotojail #dontdropthesoap

In the video, I share how to get consent from a girl without turning her off. In fact, if you do it this way, it could turn her on and get her begging you for more! 😉

Have you ever got these steps of seduction out of order and got shut down? Let me know in the comments!

How to Meet, Attract and Keep the Girl of Your Dreams

If you want to know what you need to do to find, attract AND KEEP the girl of your dreams, check out my WakeUP2Luv video coaching program: https://members.wingmam.com/get-women/

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You got this!

xo AJ ❤️

p.s. I’m writing this during the last couple weeks of summer. I always feel a weird melancholy feeling at this time of the year from so many years of dreading going back to school.

I was SO shy back then and got bullied a lot for it. I’m no longer shy but it still brings back the memories of it!

How do you feel at this time of year? Comment and I’ll heart you forever for reading all the way to here!! xoxo

Disclaimer: I’m not a therapist. You’re responsible for your actions. Don’t break the law. #Soap

About the Author Anna Jorgensen

Vancouver dating coach for men who love women! ❤️ (Not PC and not a feminist.)

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Joseph Stotridge says January 12, 2021

Good job

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