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A comment from a write-in observationalist—my responses in CAPITALS not because I’m yelling but to distinguish my comments:
I was replaying your conversation with Red where you saw the meaty hands—MMM, MEATY MAN HANDS—and also that he was talking to a young lady. It struck me that his character is questionable if he was willing to leave the woman he was talking with to join you.—HE WASN’T TALKING WITH HER, HE WAS SITTING NEXT TO HER— If you were with someone, how would you feel if he was looking at all the beautiful women walking around Vancouver?—HE WASN’T “WITH” HER, HE WAS WITH A GROUP, BUT I HAVE BEEN WITH A MAN WHO HAD “VALIDATION” NEEDS. I DUMPED HIM.—I get the impression you’d soon be laying out the ground rules, either you or them but not both!—ABSOFUCKINGLUTELY—
The other observation is that you were the other woman that enticed him away.—INDEED—I don’t think you’d be too impressed with either your date who walked away from you or the woman that lured him away.—OH, CONTRAIRE. I’D LAUGH. BUT IT WOULD BE QUITE UNLIKELY THAT I’D CHOOSE SUCH A MAN (AGAIN)—
For myself, I can easily bounce my eyes as soon as I see the woman is “attached”. —AN ADMIRABLE QUALITY—I don’t ever want to be the “other man” that I’ve heard so many stories about.—IN MY OPINION, THERE IS NO “OTHER MAN” IF THE MAN SHE’S WITH ISN’T INTERESTED IN BEING WITH HER. IN FACT, HE’S DOING HER A FAVOUR.
Maybe this will give you inspiration for yet another blog.—IF ANYONE ELSE EXPRESSES AN INTEREST, I WILL BLOG ABOUT IT!
Btw, are you really happy? Reading through your stories I start to wonder.—MY MOTHER IS DYING SO I’M SITUATIONALLY SAD, BUT 80% HAPPY, WHICH IS JUUUUST RIGHT. THANK YOU FOR YOUR CONCERN 🙂
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ReplyI’ve seen some very energetic discussions in the comments of Anna’s videos on YouTube. Just say’n
ReplyBreaking up after anfirst date is a hell of a lot easier than breaking up after three months. How do you tell someone who has fallen in love with you that you are not in love with them and you have to end it? It’s always terrible. Do you have any videos on that, Anna?
ReplyBreaking up with someone feels bad, but sometimes must be done. First, ask yourself if there’s something she could change that will change your mind. If so, you’re better off to let her know what that is and give her an opportunity to decide if she wants to change that. If it’s something that’s impossible for her to change, obviously you can’t ask for change. Impossible to change example: she has kids, you don’t want kids. Not impossible to change example: she has kids, you prefer to spend more time alone with her. Don’t assume what you think is impossible to change is actually impossible to change/manage. If she’s a good woman, compromise may be possible. Also, don’t feel you have to fall in love with her at the same pace she has fallen in love with you. Is there a potential for you to fall in love with her? If so, the conversation isn’t about breaking up but pacing the relationship and lowering her expectations in case falling in love with her does not happen. Again, then at least she is moving forward with integral information. If you know for sure she’s not the one, sit down and have that conversation. There is no easy way to do this. You’ll have to muster your courage and sensitivity. Good luck!
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