Category Archives for 50 First Dates

50 First Dates—First Date #6 (Almost) How to Break Up

How to Break Up with Someone You Just Met… How to break up with someone depends on how long you’ve been dating. Basically, the less time spent together, the less formal the break up need be. But! If in doubt, always err on the side of classy. If you’re not sure how to break up, […]

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Project 50 First Dates—First Date #5: Smoke Signals

Is Smoking a Dealbreaker? Dating site: match.com Age: 50s Kids: don’t think so. Work: management In all fairness, it was my fault. I didn’t read his profile. Or maybe I did, and I can’t remember because they―dating site profiles―start blurring together after a while. Hey, don’t judge―this is honesty. Anyone on a dating site long […]

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Project: 50 First Dates―Date #4: Women’s Safety

For Women’s Safety & Your Dating Success… Women’s primary need with men is to feel safe, therefore women’s safety should be at the forefront of your mind when online dating. If you’re new to my blog, several years ago when I had just started blogging about my relationship theories, I “took up” online dating as […]

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What To Talk About on a Second Date!

Project 50 First Dates—First 2nd Date! Just before we get to what to talk about on a second date… If you’re just tuning in, I did a 50 first dates project several years ago when I’d just started coaching. We’re reviewing some of those real fake dates so you can learn from them! Interestingly enough, […]

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Project 50 First Dates―First Date #3: Facetious Financier

Welcome to Date #3! “Project: 50 First Dates.” Let’s go back a few years to First Date #3 of Project 50 First Dates… Dating site: match.com Stats: Mid 40s, no kids Profession: finance He messaged me this: “Hey, did you used to be in real estate? … Never mind, I Googled you … [something about a risqué Halloween […]

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