No matter how hot and or interested in you she is these 5 types of women are trouble and you could end up in a living nightmare!
Maybe you’ve already experienced some of these difficult women.
Here’s what happens…
You meet an attractive woman who captures your attention, makes your heart beat faster and has you standing at attention.
She comes off as sweet and sexy and totally into you and you feel like you’re on top of the world.
But then, after she’s got her hooks in you, cracks in her personality start showing up.
You’re confused because you see her as that sweet, down to earth, sexy thing you won over except you’re starting to wonder if the juice is worth the squeeze.
Of course, no one is perfect so if she’s only got one or two of these traits in a mild form then she might still be worth the squeeze.
And there is one time any of these types of difficult women can also be redeemable and I’m going to share that with a true story. 😉
But if she’s got all of these high maintenance qualities, you should definitely be running for the hills.
To save yourself from feeling confused, frustrated and exhausted, be cautious—these 5 types of women are trouble!
And by the way, yes, some men can also have some of these traits, so make sure you don’t have them, either!
If you meet a woman who thinks she’s better than you because she’s smarter, more educated or makes more money, be wary.
That’s not to say all women who are smarter or have a higher level of education or income are trouble.
Not at all!
But if she expects you to increase your education just for the sake of the status or holds her value above yours and looks down on you with biting or condescending humour or disdain—run!
There will be a power struggle until your self-esteem has been so diminished as to render you feeling worthless when you’re really not.
You’re smart in your own ways, Sir.
This one is all too common.
When she sees every decision you make as an intended affront to her she’ll always be disappointed.
You have to work late so you reschedule a date and she thinks you don’t like her anymore or that she’s done something wrong or that she’s “not a priority.”
Then you feel like you have to work overtime to appease her!
She makes you a sandwich and you decide to add mayo so she accuses you of hating her cooking.
You just wanted mayo on your sandwich. Is that a crime?
To her—yes! #NoThanks
Okay, so you know how I’ve said women need on-going stimulation in a relationship?
If she can’t create healthy stimulation like taking an educational course, learning a new skill, engaging in a hobby or going on a road trip with you, then she’ll create unhealthy stimulation in the form of drama.
Ooh la la, some of y’all can relate!
She’s excited by conflict and instigates most of it and then acts like a victim.
Not only that but this girl would definitely win the Gold Metal for guilt tripping you!
If your girl likes to start fights out of nowhere on a regular basis—red flag!
And if the best sex you have with her is only after a fight—RED FLAG!
Along the same royalty lines another troublesome type is…
Unlike an actual Queen (not a drama queen) who treats you like a King, a Princess acts like an entitled, spoiled brat.
She takes advantage of your generosity, throws tantrums and uses the waterworks to get her way.
Princess behaviour often comes from daddy issues!
If her father let her get away with bad behaviour, particularly when it went against her mother’s opinion—daddy sided with her instead of mom—she’s learned what she can get away with with men.
ATTENTION HOES, WE’VE GOT AN ATTENTION SEEKING SPECIMEN IN AISLE 6, THAT’S AISLE 6 TO THE HO…
If she’s constantly seeking attention from other men but blames you because your attention is not enough for her—red flag!
Even worse is when she has nothing substantial to back it up but she thinks she’s entitled to unwarranted accolades.
And even worse is if she uses inappropriately naughty or sexual energy to get validation from other men.
In. Any. Form. #IGHo #OnlyFans
She posts a lot of risqué images on IG to get likes and comments.
Even if she’s making a living off IG, it’s based on selling digital s-e-x idolatry aka she’s selling her body, dude.
She wears excessively provocative outfits when she goes out with the girls for happy hour—but not for you!
She acts flirty with your guy friends and brushes it off as being friendly or bubbly and then accuses you of being insecure.
Assuming you’re not insecure… red flag!
Now, just before I share the #5 type of woman to be wary of, which is a subtle sneaky one—one I used to be guilty of—let’s look at the one time you might reconsider aborting mission.
If she’s able to have a mature, respectful discussion about your needs, boundaries and expectations in the relationship, including curtailing any of these traits—
—makes a visible concerted effort to change, she might be worth giving a chance.
But she’s got to show you she respects you and your needs and is making a real effort.
It can’t just be sorry’s and lip service—in any form! 😉
It looks like:
Keeping in mind, she will mess up. Changing habits is tough to do for ourselves never mind for someone else.
Even if imperfectly applied, you must be able to see she’s really trying and really wants to.
I know a couple who, when they were first dating, she’d wear what he considered slutty outfits whenever she went out.
He didn’t like it so he told her.
She got mad.
He stood his ground. He was willing to walk away and she knew it.
She thought about why it bothered him and decided to start dressing more classy.
Whether you’re a man or woman, if you like who you are or what you wear then only change if you think it will improve your life regardless of anyone else.
Never change something you really like about yourself for someone else.
In this case, the lady not only upgraded her style but opened a classy clothing store and became a fashionista in the community admired by both men and women alike.
Now, if you want to know how to ask for what you want from your partner, whether you’re dating or in a relationship, watch my video, How to Resolve Conflict with An Angry Woman, which could also be title How to Get What You Want From a Not Angry Woman.
It gives you a specific strategy, The Love Sammich Approach, for what to say to get more of what you want and less of what you don’t want.
Ok, now the last type of woman is the sneaky one…
To this woman, nothing is good enough—ever.
She’s a control freak and thinks her way is always best.
I used to say, “If better is possible is good good enough?” But now I’m like, “Yeah, sometimes good enough is good enough!”
To an unrecovered perfectionist, even when you do things her way, it’s not good enough.
She nitpicks everything you do no matter how hard you try.
She nags you to put your dirty dishes in the dishwasher instead of the sink, but when you do, instead of thanking you, she tells you it’s not stacked right.
If you want more of what you ask for, reward any positive steps toward it!
Otherwise, a man feels like it’ll never be enough and he might as well give up now.
Sexual rewards go a long way but the most important thing is your appreciative, respectful attitude!
Now, fellas, here’s why this can be a tricky one to call her out on…
She might be just as tough on herself so you somehow think you need to live up to her impossible standards to make life easier for her.
But how can you tell this trait will come back to haunt you if you’re just getting to know her and so far, she’s only been tough on herself?
That’s why this is the sneaky one!
Watch for signs she’s judging you but also watch for signs she’s always unreasonably too hard on herself!
It’s healthy to have standards, but having impossible standards makes her impossible to please.
Remember, none of us is perfect, and most of us display some level of emotional dysfunction. They don’t teach this stuff in school.
It’s okay to ask for what you need to reduce the level of dysfunction in your relationship.
Again, if you want to know the specific words to say to get more of what you want and less of what you don’t want in any situation, use the strategy I describe in my video How to Handle an Angry Woman.
I hope this info helps you avoid these five types of women that are trouble!
Thank you so much for being here and God bless!
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Vancouver dating coach for men who love women! ❤️ (Not PC and not a feminist.)