No Luck in Finding Love Online? Let’s Break that Bad Luck Streak!
Guest Post by Kerry Quinn
When it comes to finding love, many guys say they’ve had no lucking finding love online and some get lucky within just a week of joining a site – but don’t worry, this is probably because you are doing it wrong or not making the right effort. (Yes, that’s good news!)
You might not be getting replies from the people you have texted or you’re not feeling the spark with the one you are talking to. Trust me, these are quite common.
But there is nothing to worry about, help is here!
So, bid goodbye to not being lucky in finding love online, with these easy tips. Take a look.
5 Ways to Improve Your Chances of Finding Love Online
Re-evaluate Your Profile
When you send a person a message, the first thing that she’ll check is your profile. Hence, it’s important for you to reevaluate the profile to see if you have gone wrong somewhere.
Does it reflect your true self? Does it seem that you are bragging about yourself? Or, does it reflect that you have really low self-confidence?
If possible, get your profile reviewed by a female friend so she can point out the mistakes you are making in the best possible ways.
Rethink “Perfect Match!”
For example, if you’re all set for Chinese Women Dating, you shouldn’t have any kind of inhibitions or stigmas in your mind. Pre-conceived notions can ruin it all for you and that’s why you must think and rethink your idea of an “Ideal Match” or “Perfect Match!”
Make Yourself Stand Out
Apart from posting a few decent pictures and no more than a couple of selfies, make sure you make yourself stand out by highlighting some of your hobbies, interests, achievements, etc.
Are you an avid reader? Then, post a picture of your bookshelf! Or, do you have interest in photography? Post a few of your best clicks. Trust me, it will work and the best part is that it can be a great way to start a conversation with someone who shares the same interests.
Identify your fun facts and use them to your advantage!
Think Positively
To get rid of the bad luck you think you have, you really need to think positively!
Yes, your dates will actually turn out to be good and you might find the one, but only if you believe in it and hope for it.
If you don’t think it’ll ever happen and are constantly thinking that you have no luck in love, there’s a high chance that you’ll end up not identifying the one even if you are communicating with her on a regular basis.
Be Proactive
If you really like someone, then be proactive and approach them. Don’t feel shy! Or do, but do it, anyway. It is 2018 and to be competitive in the game of online dating you need to put in a bit too effort.
Make the first move and you’ll be surprised to see your luck turn! Also, make sure you think a little before you type the first message. (Also, Anna has a great course on how to double your online dating, you should check it out.)
So, these are a few tips for all the guys out there who think they have no luck when it comes to online dating, whether you think your perfect match is tall, short, extroverted, introverted, plays checkers or is Chinese, use these tips and see how well things work out.
And yes, thank me later!;)
~ Kerry Quinn (www.orientaldestiny.com)
AJ note: And if you are particularly attracted to Asian women, nothing wrong with that!, check out Kerry’s site! xo