The Dreaded Friend Zone
I’m not giving you just one way but 5 ways to avoid the friend zone. You’re welcome.
Gentlemen: This is tricky for you. You don’t want to come across as sleazy or cheesy but if you want to avoid the Friend zone, you’ve got to keep the sexual tension—without the erection—in the interaction.
Here’s “the how to”:
Give her the lopsided Gerard Butler grin. You know something about her that might make her blush. (Yeah, we know you don’t know anything like that yet, but pretend! You’re the star of your own romantic comedy remember?)- Innuendo. Slightly naughty quips—not directed toward her (very important at this stage)—but only applied after you’ve made her laugh about something non-sexual. Restrict innuendo usage to once or twice maximum—if she laughed the first time—during an encounter, even if she plays along. Don’t worry, it’ll set the tone.
- If you’re acting like you would with a guy or gal pal that you’re not sexually attracted to, you’re playing it too safe. No risk, no reward.
- However! Watch for signs from her: If she seems nervous, shy, uninterested, or stand-off ish—abort! abort!
- If #4 applies, still try to make her laugh, but without any sexual references, or she’ll think you’re creepy or too forward. (And if she doesn’t laugh at all: not your fault. Next.)
Bonus: Flirting is fun!
It can make her feel attractive and appreciated, but remember to know where and when to draw the line: men can inadvertently come across as creepy. No es buenos.
Now, go forth and flirt!
xo
Anna
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