There are certain subtle things men say that make women melt and the best part is these phrases that turn women on aren’t overtly sexual.
So, these can help trigger attraction whether you’ve just met her or you’ve been bumping nasties for years.
These are not pick up lines designed to get you a one night relationship, though they can certainly make you stand out from the other PUAs if you use them.
But the key is knowing when to use them and when to tuck them away for now.
Shows leadership, confidence and makes her feel taken care of.
Buying something big or small.
Similar to, “I got this.”
Stepping in to take care of an unpleasant conversation or situation, especially if you know she really doesn’t want to deal with it but is sucking it up because she thinks she has to (thanks to feminism).
Shows you believe in her and her abilities.
Encouraging her in asking for a promotion, going back to school, changing majors etc.
Affirms your attraction to her.
Most women will eventually wonder if you’re still attracted to them. She may start to wonder after a month, a year or ten years.
Say this first thing in the morning when she’s just woken up, got out of a shower, or has no makeup on. Or when you can see she’s made an effort.
The words “extra” and “today” imply she always looks sexy but today—wow!
Trust me fellas, she will take note of this subtlety.
Women read everything between the lines, even things that aren’t there (as you know)!
You not only think she’s beautiful, you think she’s more beautiful.
Again, this reassures her you’re not considering other options.
Despite what you might think positive affirmation not criticism is what keeps a keeper.
You might be thinking, “But Anna, you said not to compliment a woman on her physical beauty.”
No, I said start with non-physical compliments if she’s super attractive. Everyone tells her she’s beautiful.
Give her compliments she’s not used to getting that are uniquely flattering.
Watch my How to Compliment a Woman video again.
Once you’ve got her interested, you want to make her feel like what she gets from you she can’t get anywhere else—a self-respecting worthy man who appreciates all of her, mind, body and soul.
If you’ve been together awhile, might be time to review my How to Keep a Keeper Happy video so you don’t get lazy in a relationship.
Same as previous example: when she’s made no effort or when she’s made extra effort or when she’s feeling generally low and needs a boost.
While men’s greater needs in a relationship is to be respected and desired, women’s is to feel loved and cherished.
Once you’ve advanced to the relationship stage, subtle public declarations like this definitely have a positive effect on her.
By publicly claiming her, she feels both loved and cherished.
She’s with a group of females friends and you approach with the greeting, “Hello, my Love.”
Her heart will skip a beat knowing you’ve staked your claim in front of other women, essentially letting them know your heart is taken.
You will get some good loving later!
Similarly to, “My Love,” claiming a woman by calling her your woman sends a signal of commitment and dedication.
When to use?
Anytime you greet her, whether others are around. More details in video.
When not to use?
If she’s a feminist (or wants her girl friends to think she is), then she may prefer you save this phrase for when you’re in private or not use it at all.
Now, let’s look at when not to use these phrases and then I’ll give you a quick bonus tip on how to deliver these phrases to ramp up their impact.
When you’re trying to get out of doing something she wants you to do or you’ve been caught doing a naughty, like fibbing—unless the fib is so small and obvious it could be comical.
Essentially, never use these when there’s something in it for you! They will come off as insincere and manipulative.
She says, “Did you just check out that girl?”
You reply, “No way, I did not just check out that brunette in the red sweater because you are so beautiful there are no other women.”
The detail of your recollection and exaggeration make this fib so obvious as to be a tease.
But only if your girl isn’t super insecure. See emotionally damaged women video.
Say these phrases that turn all women on…
With a low, slow deep voice and when close to her—but within hearing range of those you’d like to hear—or near her ear, depending on the phrase used and situation (if others are around).
The reverberation of your voice and your close proximity will send shivers right down to her … toes! 😉
And if you want to know the character traits all women love and any man can develop, you definitely want to watch my What Makes a Real Man to Her video series.
Vancouver dating coach for men who love women! ❤️ (Not PC and not a feminist.)