20+ Signs She’s Not Into You (New Video Added!)

Signs She’s Not Into You #FriendZone

You long for her but suspect you’ll be in the #friendzone forever and need to know what the signs she’s not into you are because you’re too close to the situation to think clearly.

Here’s the thing… if you haven’t declared your feelings to her, she can’t just come out and say, “Hey, I’m not interested.”

That would be awkward.

So, since you’ve only hinted to her of your interest through your behaviours, then she has to do the same: hint to you that she’s not into you.

Keep this in mind: She doesn’t want to hurt your feelings.

But obvi, you need to know how she feels so you can proceed accordingly, so without further adieu here are …

20+ Signs She’s Not Into You

… She:

  1. Doesn’t reply to text or sends short replies.
  2. Doesn’t send flirt emojis.
  3. Says or texts “Awww ☺️…” to your compliments.
  4. Doesn’t reciprocate compliments.
  5. Takes forever to reply during text/IM conversations.
  6. Doesn’t try to keep a convo going.
  7. Is always “too busy” to see you.
  8. Cancels plans (especially if it’s to ___…)
  9. Doesn’t include you in her world.
  10. Puts physical space between you.
  11. Argues. (Hint: this is not a test!)
  12. Never initiates convo or asks to hang out.
  13. Only sees you if she has no other plans.
  14. Talks about guys she likes.
  15. Avoids being tagged with you on social media.
  16. Is vague when you ask her out.
  17. Doesn’t try to reschedule plans with you.
  18. Avoids running into you in public.
  19. Avoids being alone with you.
  20. Doesn’t do couple-y things with you.
  21. Always let’s you pay or…
  22. Never let’s you pay!

Yep, the more of these signs you’ve seen, the more likely you are in the friend zone, my friend.

To understand more about what she’s thinking when she displays these signs she’s just not that into you and to find out why #11 is not a shit test in this case, watch the video.

Learn more about the friend zone in this playlist: The Friend Zone.

xo AJ

Love is the answer, people! Don’t give up. DO. NOT. GIVE. UP. HOPE!!!

p.s. Got my results back from the overnight sleep clinic assessment. Apparently, I never hit delta (deep) sleep and I partially woke up 22.4 times/hr (about every 3 minutes) due to lack of oxygen because of a jaw problem. No wonder I’m always exhausted. Solution: jaw physio (crazy) and a custom mouth guard. I’ll be the belle of the ball! 😉 Also, I’m low in Mg.

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Went for my first jaw physio appointment. Lots of injections into jaw, neck, upper back and even my skull, followed up manual manipulation inside my mouth. So weird. So sore now. I really really hope this works! If you have any questions, suggestions or well wishes, please leave them in the public comments of this blog. Thanks so much!

DISCLAIMER: Anna is not a psychiatrist—no way—or medical advisor—nope—you are responsible for your actions and the results thereof. Obey the law. Such is LIFE.

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Leave a Comment:

Rob Dunham says February 18, 2020

Wow! So sorry to hear about your jaw issue. That’s the worst.
I’ve been watching your videos and signed into WAKUP2LUV. I’m a very young 64-yo retired Fire Chief who found himself back in the game after losing the love of my life and best friend to mental illness.
You’ve been a tremendous help to me regaining confidence in myself…and it’s worked. Just got back from a four day Paso Robles wine adventure with a new friend.
Read you were having this jaw issues and just wanted to let you know you’re very much appreciated.
If you’d ever like to meet a good looking and super nice retired Fire Chief, let me know.
“Have hose, will travel.” 😉
Be safe –

    Anna Jorgensen says February 18, 2020

    Thank you so much! Working on solutions for the health stuff. Glad your wine adventure with your new “friend” went well!! 😉

Tim Spain says February 18, 2020

Sleep apnea is no joke ! Will add you to my prayer list. Yes I know it’s a friendly thing to do. Its ok because you’re not supposed to hit on your coach.

    Anna Jorgensen says February 18, 2020

    Thank you! 🙂

Jeremy Lui says February 19, 2020

Getting to the bottom of your jaw issue is a big deal. Quality sleep is foundational.

Mike says February 28, 2020

FYI, I keep trying to donate via Paypal but get a session error even though I’m logged in.

What do I do when we dated a few times — so she knows how I feel — and she subsequently put me in the friend zone, but now we spend at least a couple nights a week together (this over the five weeks)? Over the past eight days, it will have been six nights! (No kissing or anything, just a hug hello and goodnight.) She flirts a little, but that’s it.

This is absurd. I’m falling hard for this woman and can’t help myself. I think about her to the exclusion of throwing away dates with other women. I keep trying to put things in perspective and keep it light, because I know that she has no romantic interest, but she makes me feel things that I thought I’d never feel again. I’d tell her that I need time away but I’d feel terrible not talking to her every day.

Life can be messy sometimes.

J says March 3, 2020

Something I might want to hear in a video: What are some of the worst tests women can pose to a guy (in case we need to prepare, rather than drop jaws and stare while in shock)? Thanks.

    Anna Jorgensen says March 3, 2020

    Noted, thanks for the suggestion 🙂

Roger Higginson says March 4, 2020

Hi Anna,

I really love your videos, they are so helpful and insightful. Do you by any chance cover the subject of how best to develop long-distance relationships ? I am in one at the moment, and as the lady is in the Middle East, it has some interesting challenges : ))

Best Wishes from London,


Dave says March 25, 2020

Anna, I just read the section in your blog about your jaw, neck, and back problems. I couldn’t tell when you wrote that, but if it was recently, I am sorry you are in pain. Hopefully, you will be back to full health soon if you aren’t already.

    Anna Jorgensen says March 26, 2020

    Thank you, fingers crossed my TMJ specialist will get my sleep mouth guard apparatus tomorrow and I’ll be able to collect it!!

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