Be More Confident

Situationally Shy? Socially Terrified? Here’s How to Be More Confident!

I used to be super shy.

How shy were you, Anna?

Okay, unfiltered, totally vulnerable here: I peed my pants in class in Grade 7 because I was too shy to raise my hand to ask to go to the bathroom. True embarrassing story.

Here’s how to be more confident using body language:

  1. Slouching portrays: lack of interest, lack of confidence, low self-esteem, unhealthy body. And women will treat you that way, and you’ll feel even more like a loser.
  2. Our physical stance is directly connected (neurologically) to our emotions, so when we physically set our body up in a confident pose—sit straight, stand tall, shoulders back, chin up, and smile—our brains tells us immediately that we’re more confident than a second ago. Fake it until your neurons fire up some bad-ass almost real confidence.
  3. Walk like a man. Yep, same brain process. Long, slow and steady strides read confidence. Pretend you’re Denzel Washington in [any movie he’s done!] Hot.

Remember this formula:

Courage + Action + Practice = Competence = Confidence = SEXY

Note: Confidence and arrogance are not the same animal.

The former is quiet self-assurance; the latter is braggart and boring, aka Yes, Sir! Major Turnoff, Sir!

Yep, as you might’ve guessed, I’m no longer shy—which is not the same as introverted, which I still am.

I even applied to speak at TedTalks. Although I’d have shit my pants and that would’ve trumped my pee pee pants story. But, I still applied, people!

I taught myself how to get over shyness, and I’m paying it forward by teaching others how to get over shyness (without having to tell your ultra private pee stories).

xo AJ

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pee.pee.s. I don’t pee my pants anymore. I totally promise. (That’s in case MFH reads this.)

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Your Creator is your biggest fan and didn’t put you here to be shy, single and suffering. But, as My Little Mom (RIP) used to say, “God helps those who help themselves.”

Dude, you really do deserve to be loved.

To the very core of me I KNOW this to be true. It is the reason I do what I do.

And, guess what else? You don’t have to believe in God for my dating advice to work for you.

Follow my dating advice for shy guys & introverted men and before you know it you’ll get a girlfriend and be cuddled up on the couch chillin’ ‘n Netflix’in with your soulmate — no more Hands Solo!

Thanks so much for being here in the world with me! For reals.

xo Anna

Founder of Wingmam, Lover of Love, Your 2nd Biggest Fan!

You got this.

Um, yeah, here’s the fine print:

DISCLAIMER: Anna is not a psychiatrist—no way—or medical advisor—nope—you are responsible for your actions and the results thereof. Such is life.

About the Author Anna Jorgensen

Vancouver dating coach for men who love women! ❤️ (Not PC and not a feminist.)

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